Personal Narrative: Growing Up For Myself

Improved Essays
Growing up I was the second child, my sister and I was seven years apart. My childhood days consisted of me sitting in my room playing with my toys. I only played with other children, if my cousins came over. I was very different; I was a tall boy with short hair. I didn’t like the skin I was in too much, because I always got picked on in school. I never talked much; I feel there was nothing to talk about. My mother and stepfather meant a lot to me. My real father only came around short, periods of time.
So my step father took me to do a lot of the father son things I saw the other kids do. I had this one auntie who I loved like a mother. I would love for my mother to drop me off at her house when she had errand. I feel I didn’t fit
…show more content…
I wasn’t a bad child; I was quiet and stayed to myself. When going to school, I had kids who would bully me sometimes, standing up for me would work and sometimes it didn’t. That’s when I would call my auntie and tell her the things, I had going on in school. She understood me, she would tell me” son everyone is different no one is the same.” I need for you to stand up for yourself. I felt like my mother and stepfather was busy working and after work, they didn’t want to hear me talk about school and my problems. That’s how I felt at the time don’t know if that would be accurate. My stepfather taught me how to be a man, and to overcome myself of being shy. After, finally getting close with my step father, he passed away. I knew then our lives would change. He was the glue that keeps us together. That was another part of me that would be balled up inside. I went to my auntie for advice on how to deal with such disbelief my auntie was there again with open arms. “Sometimes things happen that we don’t have an answer for.” I then felt everything would be ok. As I got older I faced some bad times, my aunt was there to pick up the broken pieces once again. My aunt always told me to be the best I can be and let no one change me. My aunt became very sick over the years and she passed away. I felt my heart melt and my world ending, I didn’t know what to do with myself or how I would go on. My auntie was my best

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Growing up is tough. Every day people go through life with careers that they may not enjoy. Throughout the past few weeks I got the opportunity to interview two people about their jobs, one being a young adult who just started working, while the other was approaching her mid-life with an established career. The advice from both of these individuals was both eye opening and helpful. The age of the interviewee definitely influenced the responses I received.…

    • 545 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My Michigan hero is my Mom. Why? Well because she gave up her life of being a teenager and partying and doing dum stuff . And started a new life being a mom a wonderful mom she wanted to do something good. Than she told me what happened in her past when she was pregnant with me.…

    • 505 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I know I am a workaholic and I am trying to get away from this I am learning to delegate and put my foot down, especially saying “No”. I know I have always felt satisfied when I kept doing more and endlessly tiring myself. I know I have been encouraged by my own self to be me, to be straight with people and with my own self; my own wants and feelings rather than crooked and covert. In this manner I am learning to understand what I want and possibly how to get it.…

    • 178 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Raffy Research Paper

    • 1085 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Although she was very strict, my aunt also had a sweet, gentle side, but she doesn’t openly express it. Every time we finish our tutoring session she would go to her fridge and hand me several candies for me to munch on as I walked home, and in turn I gave her a hug. It was through her that I learned to be diligent. My father,…

    • 1085 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    When I was 6 years old an event occurred that changed my life. On September 8, 2005 my mother passed away from a severe case of pneumonia. My parents were divorced at the time and I would switch from my mother’s house to my father’s house on certain days and weeks. However, I spent the majority of my time living with my mom and my older sister, Casie. Once my mother died, I moved in with my father and my sister moved to Oklahoma to live with her father.…

    • 477 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Bah! Ouch! “Why would you shoot my face!?” My brother and I were outside playing with dirt and Nerf Guns. It was mid afternoon a windy summer day, when we heard hollering inside the house.…

    • 618 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    A motif that haunts the months of college applications and preparation is the daunting idea of seniors entering into the "real world." An alleged, new realm of reality that discredits the validity of the last few years in high school, not to mention the three before that and all the experiences previously. This concept coincides seamlessly with the idea that college is a beacon of newfound adulthood. Even so, each student's differing personality, aspirations, culture and tribulations falsifies the belief that adulthood is that straightforward. Thus, in order to define the moment that marked my transition into adulthood, I must first define what being an adult means to me.…

    • 159 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Outsider Have you ever felt so different from everyone around you, even your own family? I have. It is my extended family. My father's family is African American.…

    • 624 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My teacher was also my aunt and she took me under her wing. She taught me plenty of things including my first words in English and how to tie my shoes. My aunt filled whatever gap I had in the absence of my father. Growing up, all my friends were raised by both a mother and a father. Everything from “Daddy’s little girl” apparel to yearly Father Daughter Dances I couldn’t partake in had me feeling different and excluded.…

    • 512 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    On a Tuesday evening two months into my junior year, I realized my life was changing. I was transitioning from child to adult in society’s eyes. I was working, driving, and taking more difficult classes to prepare for college. The more responsibilities I accepted, the more I was treated like an adult. It was not until two months later that I realized I was changing.…

    • 655 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Everyone always has a difficult time in their life at one point or another, some may be people may have ideal circumstances at the time, from your vantage point. But it doesn’t mean that it would be less difficult than your situation. It doesn’t matter where you come from, or what you go through, it’s how you deal with the obstacle that defines what kind of person you are and how you are going to get through life I think the best way to describe the difficult circumstance in my life is to start off by explaining how my family dynamic works. My parents met in San Antonio, Texas.…

    • 591 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Socioeconomic status Growing up without a mother for support, my father had to provide for me and my sisters. He usually worked third shift, while my sisters and I stayed at our babysitters. We grew up poor but able to life. We live in the same trailer that we lived in when my oldest sister was born, which means the trailer is about 22 years a lot if not longer. My dad made sure my sisters…

    • 1686 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Growth is a product of change, and change is inevitable regardless if it is positive or negative, which can be intimidating. During my adolescence, a fear resided in me because of my life’s adversities. I was raised in a low-income single mother household with an absent father due to incarceration. Despite feeling like a statistic, prospects began to arise when I joined the Midnight Golf Program(MGP). With the mentor-ship of MGP, I gained both courage and confidence in myself.…

    • 250 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Bent and war torn, the world crumbles at the hands of our genius species, too genius for our own good. As I’ve become older, I am not so blind to corruption; but as Orwell said “Ignorance is Strength.” My loss of naievity doesn’t make me weak, rather it makes me realize how small I really am. John-Paul Sartre said in his play “Huis Clos” that “Hell is other people,” but how does that explain how heavenly the idea of “love” is. I guess the real question is, “how does love feel?”…

    • 424 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Your house is something that you don’t think about a lot, until you have to leave it. A house filled with memories that you will never forget. Everything happened there since you moved in, young or old. I’ve lived in my old house since I was 18 months old, but had to move out around the age of 15. I loved that house from the scenery of the front yard to the enormous backyard.…

    • 1290 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays