If we look at the meaning of patriarchy it is a system where men have all the power and women are excluded from it. Now you can relate it with sex too. The modern studies on sexuality and gender shows that sex is a biological given factor, while gender is an image created by social and cultural factors. Different cultures have different norms on how a male should behave and it is what makes him a man and how a female should behave and that makes her a female. Now there is an old norm about sex where a male has to take an active role and a female has to be passive and submissive. Since childhood boys are told to wear blue and play sports while girls are told to wear pink and play house. (making former dominant and the later passive.)
There is also this assumption that a woman has sex just for the sake of giving pleasure to her man. She herself should not have a need of sex or pleasure in that act. This is also one of the reason that makes women a mere object of giving pleasure which leads to her exploitation. A lot of women are having undesirable sex and ding nothing about it because this patriarchy has made them helpless she has no means, no ways and most importantly no confidence to say NO to it. Women consider giving pleasure to their men as an obligation instead of advancing into mutually beneficial sex session. …show more content…
Sunshine we read and we see that she is not happy with the kind of sex she has with her partner. He is dominant and hard to her and he shows his pride in it similar to the traditional set norm of a sexual intercourse.
A woman seeking for sexual fulfilment is considered pervert and hence available to all. This has made women supress their urge and needs and accept whatever they get in name of
There is also this assumption that a woman has sex just for the sake of giving pleasure to her man. She herself should not have a need of sex or pleasure in that act. This is also one of the reason that makes women a mere object of giving pleasure which leads to her exploitation. A lot of women are having undesirable sex and ding nothing about it because this patriarchy has made them helpless she has no means, no ways and most importantly no confidence to say NO to it. Women consider giving pleasure to their men as an obligation instead of advancing into mutually beneficial sex session. …show more content…
Sunshine we read and we see that she is not happy with the kind of sex she has with her partner. He is dominant and hard to her and he shows his pride in it similar to the traditional set norm of a sexual intercourse.
A woman seeking for sexual fulfilment is considered pervert and hence available to all. This has made women supress their urge and needs and accept whatever they get in name of