There were major communication differences between the tour guide and myself. First off, he was …show more content…
I was nervous about the outline and the prep time. I got my outline finished on Thursday and I was planning to do the recording of the speech in front of my co-workers on Saturday. First of all, I don't really like talking about myself, and when I do I tend to repeat myself and say umm a lot. It's uncomfortable, and I also don't sound confident when I speak about myself. For prep, I went into a room at work and started to say things out loud because for some reason saying things in my head do not allow me to learn very well. Next, I stepped it up and I actually gave the speech to just one of my co-workers, asking for critique. Honestly, this was my best performance of the speech. After that, I practiced some more to myself and then finally I gave the speech. This was hard, as my co-workers thought it would be funny to mess with me. I started to speak and I really got into it and felt very confident. The speech started off great until one of my co-workers yelled, "BALLS!" Although it was distracting I restarted but I had just tried this three times. My nerves were getting the best of me and I started to repeat myself a lot. Damn …show more content…
I kept looking away from her because I was trying to be stubborn. Also, my facial expression showed a lot of my emotion towards the conversation. I would say I followed the guidelines when it comes to nonverbal communication because honestly, I wanted to convey that I was upset. The only thing I didn't do well was saying, "yes everything is okay" and have my non-verbal messages match that. I didn't really follow it because I'm a stubborn person. Sometimes people say things that they don't mean in hopes that the other person will pick it up. It's confusing and I hate it. We should do that. Next time, I would really like to think about what I'm saying and make sure that what I'm saying matches my nonverbal