In Lisa Lewis’ article, “Why we still allow bullying to flourish is kids sports,” she discusses about kids being bullied by coaches. Some coaches today are abusing or yelling at their players for a mistake they have made. Lewis reports that most coaches are passionate about sports, but those who do bully the players may be unsatisfied about the development of every athlete. Lewis asserts that shouting or mistreating kids will result in a long-lasting feeling. Players may be fearful of speaking their mind because they do not want the coach to get pay back.…
Lipstye explains the negative effects of being involved in the mentality of a jock, “Once a safe place to learn about bravery, cooperation, and respect becomes a cockpit of bullying, violence, and the commitment to win-at-all costs attitude that can kill a soul” (Lipstye 277). In my own personal experience, and observations, I feel that the current “Jock Culture” is wreaking havoc and negative consequences on young athletes. Robert Lipsyte made me live in the past again. I have never thought about my childhood memories of my participation of the various sports I’ve played until now. While enjoyable, there were defiantly many negative aspects that even as a young child I witnessed and still feel the effects today.…
In the essay “Children Need to Play, not Compete”, Jessica Statsky writes about the importance of children being able to have fun playing a sport without the pressure of winning or losing (152-157). Playing sports can be a huge part of a child’s life, but parents and coaches need to remember that sports are here to keep a child busy and active. Children use sports to make friends not compete with each other to see who is better. When sport oriented parents and over controlling coaches try to have kids play at a professional level this causes children to lose interest (152, par. 1). With this being said the parents and coaches need to realize how they are taking the game to an unsafe and unsportsmanlike level.…
Lewis Lapham says that sports must preserve an illusion of perfect innocence. Sport activities are described as a ¨ritual portrayal of a world in which time stops¨. Lapham is absolutely right when he says this, games are not just games for a lot of spectators. High school sport games are something else, they do not exactly provide hope, but a false or temporary hope. People always know the game is going to have to end, but they still enjoy what they have left. In H.G. Bissinger’s Friday Night Lights, there is a small town called Odessa that experiences this erroneous hope every friday night.…
The writer ability to appeal to the readers in an emotion, ethical, and logical way makes her article very compelling.…
However, her explanation was clear to understand. she was briefly in her explanation that makes her article interesting and enjoyable. Anyways it will be much better if the writer starts with a clear introduction to grab our attention since the beginning. Because sometimes we just scan the beginning to decide if we want to read this article or not. overall it is getting better after a while of reading which I really appreciate from the…
From football to golf, every sport is important and every child needs to get involved in some way. In the end, they will be proud that they accomplished many goals, and they are a better person because of their past. The effect of sports on children’s lives are leadership skills, communication, and confidence, which is a key to success. Let your child excels in their sport; it will make a true impact in his or her life and down the road, they will thank you for all the encouragement and time you spent cheering them on. Along with sports, you play a vital role in their…
From the Super Bowl to the FIFA World Cup, society has found a way to connect and relate with one another through sports; the metaphorical conduit that consolidates mankind from the far ends of the globe. But one thing we don 't take into account when we watch our favorite stars on the big screen is the darker side of sports that is commonly fallen on deaf ears. Every day, previously thought invincible athletic machines suffer against a silent enemy. No, it doesn 't take up the form of broken bones or halved pay checks and expired contracts, but something with farther reaching consequences and implications. Can you guess?…
First kids who play sport are always told to win. This can make them think the only thing that matters is winning. In the article “Are High School Sports Good For Kids?” by Daniel Gould states, “The overemphasis on winning issue is especially significant as when this course the educational objective for involvement is often forgot.”…
Kewuana Lerna used perseverance, passion, and strength to achieve success in challenging classes. Firstly, Kewuana showed perseverance when she was struggling in her class. For example, Paul Tough Author of How Children Succeed, shares that Kewuana came up with a strategy to go over words she didn’t know with her teacher after class when everyone is done asking their questions and have left(Tough). Thus Kewuana showed perseverance to help progress her learning in class. Secondly, Kewuana showed passion and dedication to continue her learning.…
This idea of false high self esteem is brought up in a washington post article, “Competition is a natural instinct. However, the ‘win-at-all-costs’ mentality so prevalent in youth sports today is not only destructive to team morale, it severely undermines individual self-esteem” (Chumley). When these kids finally are told the truth, or lose, it will be much harder for them to overcome the fact of this loss. Therefore, this aspect of the everyone wins mentality is hurting kids more than it is helping…
In “Losing Is Good for You,” Ashley Merryman argues that constantly rewarding children is an all too common and toxic practice in society that needs to be stopped immediately since it degrades the true merit of winning. She insists that losing is an essential experience that is imperative to the development of children and their impressionable mentalities. Although she claims that losing is good for kids, she recognizes that people should be aware of the intellectual and emotional differences that are unique to each child before administering constructive criticism. According to Merryman, adults should stop assuring children that they are all identical winners because it drives them to underachieve, leads them to devalue the success of winning,…
Sports teams should always give out trophies, but those trophies should be given out to only the best players or best teams. If trophies are given out as participation awards, they lose their meaning and athletes wouldn’t give their best efforts. Athletes should have to work for a trophy instead of just showing up to receive a trophy. Trophies should be a motivational tool not something that could potentially encourage athletes to decrease their efforts. To earn a trophy, athletes should have to prepare and perform above average.…
This quote shows just how important sport related friendships can be for a kid. Sports teach you to be able to trust and depend on the other members of your team and those are very important qualities for kids to understand from a young age because they will need to be able to trust and depend on the other colleagues from the future workplace to get the job done etc. In conclusion, competitive sports are good for kids because it allows them to learn about the importance of keeping a healthy lifestyle and mind, how to be competitive, and how to make friends. I hope that when you are parents one day you can think back to this speech and get your kids involved in…
“Sportsmanship for me is when a guy walks off the court and you really can’t tell whether he won or lost, when he carries himself with pride either way.” - Jim Courier. In life we have one aim; to find greatness within ourselves. This topic can be observed by several athletes across the world. The desire to reach our goals in life has devoted many to the love of sports.…