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Should everyone get a trophy? According to the "Trophies for All" policy, youth athletes are being awarded with participation trophies. People don't get something in "real life" for showing up, participating, and "doing your best." Giving awards for showing up and doing what is required is meaningless and sends the wrong message. The more trophies you give out the less each one means. In spite of all this many believe participation trophies are good and necessary to build self confidence. Regardless participation trophies are unnecessary. People don't get awards in "real life" for showing up, participating and "trying your best." It's completely unrealistic and should not beset as an example for youth. However, many would disagree. Many would argue that there is nothing wrong with giving youth athletes trophies saying good job you came and you tried your best. This is wrong because it sends the wrong message. …show more content…
It tells youth athletes that it's okay to stop trying to get better at the sport you play. Yes, it is true that not everyone can be a "star athlete" however, that does not mean that you should stop trying to be the best you can be , to improve the way you play."The idea is to motivate kids to play sports and have fun." Author of the book " Top Dog: The Science Of Winning and Losing" stated that " the benefit of competition isn't actually winning. The benefit is improving. When you're constantly giving a kid a trophy for everything they're doing, you're saying, I don't care about improvement. I don't care that you're learning from your mistakes. All we expect is that you're always a

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