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As each individual become able to handle their own profession, they are trained to know the basic rules and the steps of becoming professional in the field. An appropriate supervisor behavior determines if the person is able to supervise on its own. The process of trying to train or supervise is very challenging for most individuals. I always feel as though I could have been a relationship counselor, reasons because my friends would come to me for relationship advice, and they trusted the information I gave them as well. The stories I heard was interesting, I never have gone through certain situations. so for them to come to me I felt special. I gave my friends my full attention, listen, and gave them feedback, which I understood why they …show more content…
The book talks about three challenges about becoming a profession in therapy. The first challenge is neither easily accomplished nor never totally surmounted (cited). From my perspective things are never easy when it's, in the beginning, stage, it starts by training a person to get better so the person can find out about their strengths and weakness, what they good at and what they not good at. The second challenge arises, particularly at first, with the prospect of working with more than one person at a time (cited). I feel as though people such as myself should familiarize with more than one task or experience, it helps with becoming overwhelmed to be able to think and operate relationally. Sometimes I try new things to say I have experience, but I can't say I have experience if I honestly didn't actually put myself out there. The third challenge involved with becoming and ultimately being a marriage and family therapist is that of maintaining consistency with your knowledge and skills once you leave the protective environment of a training program and are faced with the challenges of practice in a context that may not be particularly supportive of a systemic /cybernetic perspective (Cited). In most cases I feel as though it will only be best for an individual to understand the knowledge of becoming a consistency marriage and family therapist is challenging and worth it. It takes hard dedication, and education, there are different perspective worldwide. I applaud a person that is a marriage and family therapist, it is a challenge, which requires skills and lots of knowledge that contains a process that is mainly worth the time and

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