The pressure that my brother and I had over the years in trying to keep my father’s dream of being successful alive was hard to deal with. It took patience and discipline to keep up with that expectation as we grew up. To be able to move on I had to endure the pressure and look at my real motivations for becoming a therapist. I had to pay attention to my feelings of wanting to prove myself. This is a tendency that while it has helped me in the past with the challenges that I have faced, it could hinder the work I do in counseling. It could create scenarios in which I am over whelming my clients with the information because I want them to know my competence, and that I have done the work to be able to counsel them. This characteristic however,
