Right as he said it my friend, who was sitting next to me, turned and mouthed, “I’m so sorry.” My initial thought was, “Okay, it’s not exactly a conventional idea, but where could he possibly go with this?” At first it was innocent, he suggested we have a photo booth with sombreros and fake mustaches for props, stereotypical but not out of the ordinary. But then he said, looking right at me, “We can even bring in a real donkey like the quinceañeras have. You had one right Maria?” At that moment I looked around the room and almost everyone was looking at me with sympathetic eyes, I avoided their gazes and laughed it off. It was relieving to see that not everyone saw Mexicans that way. Personally, I have never seen a donkey in real life. I could have gotten mad, glared at the person, or even stormed out of the room, but that wouldn’t have solved anything. This surprised me, in any other setting I would have reacted in any of those ways. Instead, I sat through the meeting and contributed as much as I could for the remainder of it. That night, my preferred theme got chosen and no, it wasn’t Mexican
Right as he said it my friend, who was sitting next to me, turned and mouthed, “I’m so sorry.” My initial thought was, “Okay, it’s not exactly a conventional idea, but where could he possibly go with this?” At first it was innocent, he suggested we have a photo booth with sombreros and fake mustaches for props, stereotypical but not out of the ordinary. But then he said, looking right at me, “We can even bring in a real donkey like the quinceañeras have. You had one right Maria?” At that moment I looked around the room and almost everyone was looking at me with sympathetic eyes, I avoided their gazes and laughed it off. It was relieving to see that not everyone saw Mexicans that way. Personally, I have never seen a donkey in real life. I could have gotten mad, glared at the person, or even stormed out of the room, but that wouldn’t have solved anything. This surprised me, in any other setting I would have reacted in any of those ways. Instead, I sat through the meeting and contributed as much as I could for the remainder of it. That night, my preferred theme got chosen and no, it wasn’t Mexican