Overcoming Selfishness : My Mom And I Essay

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Overcoming Selfishness: My Mom and I
As a teenager, it is easy to feel like no one relates to you or even understands what you could possibly be going through. Even when your parents attempt to understand, in your mind they make it worse. I am no stranger to these concepts, as my mom and I had a bad relationship. We would argue at least once a day, every single day. It was strenuous for both of us, and it ended up putting a strain on the rest of the family as well.
At the thick of it all, I was fifteen to sixteen years old. I’d been going through personal issues with my anxiety, and my mom had just had a hysterectomy and was having issues with her health. Arguments would start over something small that a comment and would escalate to shouting matches and a lot of angry walks. I can’t remember what started it, but I do remember going a week or so without saying more than a few sentences to her. I’ve had friends relate to me about their relationship with one of their parents, but when I reflect on my situation I truly believe that my mom and I broke each other’s hearts. Some nasty things were said by both of us, and I can tell you first hand, these were the kind of things you’d never forget.
This went on for years. We were so unhappy with each other and you could tell in person and in pictures that we were miserable. As Waldinger says, “It turns out that people who are more socially connected to family, to friends, to community, are happier, they 're physically healthier,…

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