One man in his whole life will meet countless challenges, and all of these challenges could give the man his own experiences and these experiences or feelings will build the own belief of this person. For me, I believe that to be optimistic is the key to having a better life. I will use my own stories to show you how this become my own belief.
This story is about the TOEFL test. You know it’s one of the best and biggest language exam in the whole world. So in China if you want to go abroad, especially America, and get better education, you will need to take this exam. In this case, I started to study the TOEFL when I was in high school. At first I thought it would be very easy since my English grades are always good in school. However …show more content…
Then I took 2 days to stay in my home to do some relaxing and thinking. Why did I put so much pressure on myself? That is the first question. Because of my parents? my family? No, my life is my own life, everyone could failed, but the most important thing is that can I stand up again and continue with my life. And even if the worst thing truly happen, my family will also support and encourage me, just like they always did. So why did I failing so much? Why I did not trust my family? Furthermore, failing the TOEFL test means failing everything? Of course not, when God closes one door, he always opens window. The most significant thing is not success, but it is the experience. That makes one man’s life, and makes you grow up. The way of success is to find the right way in those ways that you could probably lose all of them. So just do it, and always stay happy. After that night, I turned my attitude, and started to be optimistic when facing challenges. I have to say to be optimistic is wonderful, and in the end I success passed the exam. I do not want to say that is all about attitude, but I want to say that after that time, I built a belief in myself that I could probably use for my whole