Another important moment of Emma’s change is when she realises “how wrong she has been to play with the feelings of others” (Jones 2002: 67). It appears when Harriet tells Emma that she is in love with Mr. Kightley, and not with Frank. This is the moment when Emma understands that she is herself in love with him:
Emma’s eyes were instantly withdrawn; and she sat silently meditating, in a fixed attitude, for a few minutes. A few minutes were sufficient for making her acquainted with her own heart… She saw it all with a clearness which had never blessed her before… How inconsiderate, how indelicate, how irrational, how unfeeling had been her conduct! What blindness, what madness, had led her on!.. Her mind was in all the perturbation that such a development of self, such a burst of threatening evil, such a confusion of sudden and perplexing emotions must create. (Austen 1815: