I Love My Natural Hair

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When comparing ourselves to the traditional standards of beauty set forth by society, black women do not always feel like they are up to par. Several black women see themselves see themselves as “not good enough” because of how our natural hair is perceived. Considering it took me a year to learn to love my natural hair, the journey took much self-love that has made me the person I am today.
When I was younger I hated my natural hair with a passion. I was about eight years old and I couldn’t and neither could my father so he took me to the salon to get it relaxed. I loved having silky smooth straight hair it was so manageable and so care free like a dandelion blowing in the wind. As I grew older, I started to wonder how I would look if I returned

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