Emotional Choice By Gary Belssky Summary

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In the article “Logical Choice” Gary Belsky writes about decisions and how hard they can be no matter what the circumstance is. He wrote this article to show people that it is not easy making a decisions without feeling a little guilt about the choice they made. Belsky gives a few real common life examples of choices people have to make and some they make in their daily life. A few years ago I lived with my mom and was going through some tough situations while I was there. We had financial, housing, and family problems. At the time I was still in high school and was failing most of my classes because my mind was not focused on it. After a while my Tia saw we were struggling and offered my brothers and I to move in with her. It was a real tough

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