Don’t allow people to pass their time with you. Make the most of your time in relationships and friendships by identifying the warning signs of indifference and manipulation. They either treat you with respect or they don’t, there is no middle ground.
If more than a few of the following signs exist in your relationships, I recommend a comprehensive examination of your partner, wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, lover or friend. Don’t sell yourself short. If you don’t expect more from the people in your life, you’ll never receive more. Learn to recognize how others will try and take advantage in love and friendship. 1. They don’t ever bother speaking with you except by text, email or instant messenger. 2. They are non-committal and …show more content…
When the relationship has ended, they will periodically call you “just” to ensure that you are still (available) doing well. Never make the mistake of thinking they got in touch because they want to get back together. 9. They always create drama in the hope that you’ll get the hint that they’re not interested. In this way, it is you that let them off the hook. And they will always come back when they are without someone to use. 10. They always make a lot of commotion when you threaten to move on with your life. And then when you “reciprocate”, they’re never there for you. 11. They never break-up with their wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend. But they always expect you to be there for them. Most believe you have all the time in the world to wait for them. 12. They text, email and even leave voice messages. And when you quickly respond, they either take forever to return the call or don’t bother to call back at all. 13. Someone or something is always at fault. The bus was late, overtime at work, the “ex” called, something came up, or whatever the excuse of the day is for why they can’t. In fact, the excuses will never end and you know …show more content…
You hang out like friends, but you never “go out” together. You may even be a friend with benefits. What are you supplying that they can’t receive elsewhere? 24. They treat you without love and respect. Even if you don’t love one another, it should never stop them from being respectful with their words and actions. 25. They only want things their way, on their own terms and are always in the right. In other words, they own you and they have all the power. 26. They treat everyone from the postman, pizza delivery guy, plumber and even the dog with consideration. But when it comes to you, it all flies out the window. 27. They are controlling, jealous and possessive. Anyone that behaves in this manner isn’t the type to have a balanced or respectful relationship. Moreover, they may not really want you, but absolutely don’t want anyone else to have you. 28. They are afraid to talk about the future, or feign a future so they can get away with what they want now because they won’t be around later and they know it. 29. They have no time for you and the relationship. Nobody is that busy in a devoted and loving relationship. When someone is sincerely interested in you, they will demonstrate their interest by leaving you without any
If more than a few of the following signs exist in your relationships, I recommend a comprehensive examination of your partner, wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, lover or friend. Don’t sell yourself short. If you don’t expect more from the people in your life, you’ll never receive more. Learn to recognize how others will try and take advantage in love and friendship. 1. They don’t ever bother speaking with you except by text, email or instant messenger. 2. They are non-committal and …show more content…
When the relationship has ended, they will periodically call you “just” to ensure that you are still (available) doing well. Never make the mistake of thinking they got in touch because they want to get back together. 9. They always create drama in the hope that you’ll get the hint that they’re not interested. In this way, it is you that let them off the hook. And they will always come back when they are without someone to use. 10. They always make a lot of commotion when you threaten to move on with your life. And then when you “reciprocate”, they’re never there for you. 11. They never break-up with their wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend. But they always expect you to be there for them. Most believe you have all the time in the world to wait for them. 12. They text, email and even leave voice messages. And when you quickly respond, they either take forever to return the call or don’t bother to call back at all. 13. Someone or something is always at fault. The bus was late, overtime at work, the “ex” called, something came up, or whatever the excuse of the day is for why they can’t. In fact, the excuses will never end and you know …show more content…
You hang out like friends, but you never “go out” together. You may even be a friend with benefits. What are you supplying that they can’t receive elsewhere? 24. They treat you without love and respect. Even if you don’t love one another, it should never stop them from being respectful with their words and actions. 25. They only want things their way, on their own terms and are always in the right. In other words, they own you and they have all the power. 26. They treat everyone from the postman, pizza delivery guy, plumber and even the dog with consideration. But when it comes to you, it all flies out the window. 27. They are controlling, jealous and possessive. Anyone that behaves in this manner isn’t the type to have a balanced or respectful relationship. Moreover, they may not really want you, but absolutely don’t want anyone else to have you. 28. They are afraid to talk about the future, or feign a future so they can get away with what they want now because they won’t be around later and they know it. 29. They have no time for you and the relationship. Nobody is that busy in a devoted and loving relationship. When someone is sincerely interested in you, they will demonstrate their interest by leaving you without any