Not every dream comes true and sometimes you just have to face the worst. Dreams and reality are different. Janie has new information and thoughts that changes her ideas on marriage and love. She realises that being married does not mean you are in love with the person. You have to find love first before you get married. This then goes contrary to her grandmother’s idea about marriage serves as a way of protection or eventually falling in love after marriage. This is because she does not want Janie to be a victim of sexual harassment or abuse. Likewise, looking fall love might cause pain or heartbreaks. However, she does not want just protection, in her mind she thinks that married couples are supposed to share something unique and unbreakable.
