Adeline’s only respect she got from him was if she got good grades in school. For instance, “He ordered me to lie facedown on my bed and he whipped me”Adeline pg#104). This shows that Father does not have a great love for Adeline. He dislikes her so thinks it is ok to whip her. For example, “I’m afraid I’ve forgotten your Chinese name. Is it Junqing? A pang went through me. I meant so little to him. I was such a nobody that he didn't even remember my name” (Father pg#125). This shows that Father does not care or remember Adeline. That is not a normal way parents are suppose to treat their children. Also, it shows that he dislikes her because he is sending her off to a boarding school not even knowing her name or date of birth. All in all, Father was very distant from Adeline. Their relationship was not a father daughter relationship but more a strict and dysfunctional
Adeline’s only respect she got from him was if she got good grades in school. For instance, “He ordered me to lie facedown on my bed and he whipped me”Adeline pg#104). This shows that Father does not have a great love for Adeline. He dislikes her so thinks it is ok to whip her. For example, “I’m afraid I’ve forgotten your Chinese name. Is it Junqing? A pang went through me. I meant so little to him. I was such a nobody that he didn't even remember my name” (Father pg#125). This shows that Father does not care or remember Adeline. That is not a normal way parents are suppose to treat their children. Also, it shows that he dislikes her because he is sending her off to a boarding school not even knowing her name or date of birth. All in all, Father was very distant from Adeline. Their relationship was not a father daughter relationship but more a strict and dysfunctional