The struggles in life started early on for Sejourney. Life started spiraling downwards when her parents first told her, and her four siblings that they were getting a divorce. Although this was a tough time for her, this gave Sejourney the opportunity to grow an unbreakable bond with her father unlike many. A few years later, her brother Marty was murdered when she was 13 years old. To makes matters worse, her father died …show more content…
“It’s very hard for me to trust and to confide in a man. I have a very high guard up and don’t trust much of what any man tells me. It’s hard for me to open up and actually believe that there are men out there that actually have good intentions.” Not only is she keeping her guard up for her own emotional health, but for her children’s sake also. Her oldest daughter Averie, who is now eight years old, still suffers from the memories of abuse.
“There are still days where I struggle and wish I didn’t have to do it alone.” Being a single mother with 5 kids is a lot and making sure they never feel abandoned. “I don’t regret my circumstances, without Tony I wouldn’t have my little family I have today, and I wouldn’t be the person I am.” Sejourney’s kids are what keep her going every day. Whenever they see her falling down they are the first to pick her up.
Since leaving Tony, Sejourney has been able to do things she never thought would be possible. She owns a house, received her license, bought a car, enrolled her kids at the catholic school, and always makes sure there is food on the table and clothes on her kids backs. With passion in her voice, “My kids are my rock. Without them I would be lost in this world. My children are my best friends. I am beyond blessed for everything I