She describes her initial uncertainty about her identity when recounting her first relationship with a woman. When others asked whether or not she was gay, Stroker would respond that she did not know, but that she was in love (Russo et al. 2015). She emphasizes being in love, rather than the gender of her partner. She goes on to say that labels are not “really her thing” because she feels that they sell people short: “we are more than just a stamp” (Russo et al. 2015). Stroker’s belief mirrors Judith Butler’s writing in “Imitation and Gender Subordination.” Butler states that professing an identity requires a production of self that does not necessarily truly reflect the self prior to claiming that identity (Butler 18). Butler also says that identity categories have inherent limitations about what they include, and thus also what they exclude (Butler 15). Stroker’s hesitation to use identity labels reflects their tendency to be inadequate descriptors of a person’s lived experience because of their
She describes her initial uncertainty about her identity when recounting her first relationship with a woman. When others asked whether or not she was gay, Stroker would respond that she did not know, but that she was in love (Russo et al. 2015). She emphasizes being in love, rather than the gender of her partner. She goes on to say that labels are not “really her thing” because she feels that they sell people short: “we are more than just a stamp” (Russo et al. 2015). Stroker’s belief mirrors Judith Butler’s writing in “Imitation and Gender Subordination.” Butler states that professing an identity requires a production of self that does not necessarily truly reflect the self prior to claiming that identity (Butler 18). Butler also says that identity categories have inherent limitations about what they include, and thus also what they exclude (Butler 15). Stroker’s hesitation to use identity labels reflects their tendency to be inadequate descriptors of a person’s lived experience because of their