Instead she writes that one must work for it and chase it. In the allusion to Helen, Sappho recalls that Helen had to go off in pursuit of love “leaving behind the best man of all, and sail away to Troy”. Love in this case required a sacrifice to be made- her former life and “the best man of all”- suggesting that love does not come to those who wait by passively. And while love does seize someone, it does not ensure that the satisfaction of love will be obtained or guaranteed. When “slender Aphrodite overwhelmed [Sappho] with longing for a boy” a sense that love is lacking is implied. One would not long for a love they possess, instead they long for love they lack. Similarly, the love felt between Atthis and Sappho was not permanent. Originally, the two split -possibly due to Atthis being married away- and left each other still as lovers. However, time passed and eventually this love between the two turned to hate and Sappho states “Atthis, for you the thought of me has become hateful” and that she “loved you Atthis once long ago”. There was no work done by either of the two to maintain their relationship. Love does not care that it may be physically impossible to maintain a relationship due to forced separation (such as with Atthis and Sappho) or other circumstances, love will still leave regardless. Therefore, Sappho is of the opinion that love must be worked
Instead she writes that one must work for it and chase it. In the allusion to Helen, Sappho recalls that Helen had to go off in pursuit of love “leaving behind the best man of all, and sail away to Troy”. Love in this case required a sacrifice to be made- her former life and “the best man of all”- suggesting that love does not come to those who wait by passively. And while love does seize someone, it does not ensure that the satisfaction of love will be obtained or guaranteed. When “slender Aphrodite overwhelmed [Sappho] with longing for a boy” a sense that love is lacking is implied. One would not long for a love they possess, instead they long for love they lack. Similarly, the love felt between Atthis and Sappho was not permanent. Originally, the two split -possibly due to Atthis being married away- and left each other still as lovers. However, time passed and eventually this love between the two turned to hate and Sappho states “Atthis, for you the thought of me has become hateful” and that she “loved you Atthis once long ago”. There was no work done by either of the two to maintain their relationship. Love does not care that it may be physically impossible to maintain a relationship due to forced separation (such as with Atthis and Sappho) or other circumstances, love will still leave regardless. Therefore, Sappho is of the opinion that love must be worked