Abuse At Home Analysis

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“He abuses me at home, that’s why I never want to go home Kaira and that’s why I don’t like staying at home.” He caught me way off guard. I would have never have thought that he was getting abused at home, I thought it would be about him not wanting to do chores or because he was bored at home. I would have never thought he was getting abused at home, my own best friend was getting abused at home and I never knew about it until now. Over a thousand children suffer from being abused by someone. Just because the abuser gets so angry, or they might be under the influence of drugs or alcohol. When they release that anger they will turn that anger onto the child, and hit them. I know that is one of the reasons that children are abused is because they’re mad at the other spouse or they simply didn’t want the child in the first place just because their spouse left them …show more content…
That’s why I like being at school away from my father, and your here making me feel better safe and happy. That’s why I never want you to leave Kaira because you make me feel safe and happy, even when it gets rough.” I really wanted to know how to help since him and his family did everything they could, they informed the police that didn’t work, they tried to move away that didn’t work either, and they even tried moving with their grandma but that didn’t work either. I wanted to know if there was a way to help my best friend, but for now talking to me about the problem really helped him a lot. I would try and keep him focused on what good things he had and what he could try to do to try and stop the abuse. But I would like to know what other ways that I could help and stop the abuse, and help put a stop to it so my best friend or anyone else so they wouldn’t have to go through anything like that. Like step by step methods to stop the abuse or any type of help that could completely stop the

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