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______ is a negative conflict management strategy that may include inflicting psychological pain.
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Verbal Agression
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Persuasion deals with matters of ______, not certainty.
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judgment
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Listening is a _______ process.
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circular
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When giving a persuasive speech & the more difficult the topic you're trying to persuade, the ____ difficult it will be to convince your audience.
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more
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In order to establish a _______ connection, you'd need to prove the possible causes other than the one you're postulating is not producing the effect.
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cause/effect
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Your ______ is the degree to which your audience regards you as a valid spokesperson.
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credibility
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A diagram that is the foundation for human behavior and explains why we do the things we do
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Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
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speaking that attempts to strengthen or change existing attitudes and/or move listeners to action. process of influencing attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors (usually but not always used by attorneys, politicians, advertisers and religious leaders)
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persuasive
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A persuasive speech is a convincing argument based on _____. It is addressed to autonomous, _____ making individuals.
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facts, choice
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Persuasive speech is/isn't the use of coercion or inducements.
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IS NOT
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The specific goal of persuasive speeches are ____ change & ______
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attitude, action
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When picking a persuasive speech topic, pick something that is _______ & _______.
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current, controversial
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A goal of persuasive speaking is ______: stop doing what you're doing, after being convinced to stop.
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discontinuance
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A goal of persuasive speaking is _____: keep your audience from doing something; hopefully they haven't started.
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deterrence
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A goal of persuasive speaking is _____: keep doing what you're doing.
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continuance
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A goal of persuasive speaking is ___: adopt that behavior.
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adoption
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audience perception of you that you're trustworthy through appearance
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character
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something that makes people want to listen to you, that is appealing
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charisma
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a disagreement between interdependent parties who perceive that they have incompatible goals
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conflict
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What are some advantages of conflict?
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might help to achieve goals, clears the air, might hear new ideas, might help decision-making
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What are some disadvantages of conflict?
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may harm relationships, no resolution after conflict is stated, stressful to people involved, may lead to violence
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a type of conflict where people disagree on a particular issue, not really personal
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content
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a type of conflict where there are a shortage of things such as money & time
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resource shortage
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a type of conflict over value differences
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value
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a type of conflict over whose job it is to do A and whose job it is to do B
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roles/relationship
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Conflicts also come about because of ____ differences and _____.
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goal, ego
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is ________, or pushing the conflict aside, forgetting about it for now.
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avoiding
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is ______, such as name calling.
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personal attacks
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is _____, or no display of emotion
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neutrality
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is ______, such as diverting your partner's attention away from the conflict by changing the subject, ignoring their comments. It is a way of avoidance and will only make your partner angrier.
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Distracting
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is ______, which is a very manipulative form of distraction from the main point.
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total surrender
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An ineffective technique for managing conflict in the long term is ______, or making someone talk about something right now that they're not ready to talk about.
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forcing
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An effective conflict management technique in the long term is _______, put out the fire until you've both had time to think about it and come back at least a bit more rationally.
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diffusing
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An effective conflict management technique in the long term is _______, level the playing field - give both parties equal chance to achieve their goals.
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leveling
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An effective conflict management technique in the long term is _______, Describe, Express, Specify, Consequences.
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DESC Script.
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With the DESC Script:
• D: Describe • Describe the situation to the other person as you see it, without imposing any emotions on that description. • E: Express • Express how it makes you feel. • S: Specify • Tell the person what you want them to do about it. • C: Consequences (positive, then negative) • Don’t make threats that you can’t carry out |
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____ happens when you get within range of some auditory stimulus. _____, on the other hand, only just begins when the messages the speaker sends are received/heard.
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hearing, listening
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messages that communicate different and contradictory meanings
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mixed messages
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speakers may ask hearers to cut them some slack and to receive their messages without prejudice, which is a process referred to as what?
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disclaiming
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grasping both the thoughts that are expressed and the emotional tone that accompanies them
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understanding
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retention of messages
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remembering
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judging the messages you hear
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evaluation
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messages that let the speaker know you're paying attention, as when you nod in agreement or say, "I see" or "Uh-huh"
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backchanneling cues
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to understand what a person means and what a person is feeling
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empathy
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state in your own words what you think the speaker means and feels
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paraphrasing
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a process of sending back to the speaker what you think the speaker meant
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active listening
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an approach to listening in which effective listening style depends on the specifics of the communication
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situational listening
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a five step process consisting of receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluation, and responding
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listening
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the tendency to integrate and interpret what you hear or think you hear in terms of your own expectations and biases
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assimilation
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a reconstructive, rather than reproductive process
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memory
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messages in which you take responsibility for your thoughts and actions rather than attributing these to others
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I-messages
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a type of conflict that centers on objects, events, and persons that are usually, though not always, external to the parties involved in the conflict
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content
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a type of conflict that centers on the nature and meaning of your relationship
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relationship
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In _____ cultures, conflicts most often involve violations of larger group norms and values.
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collectivist
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In _____ cultures, conflicts are more likely to occur when people violate expected norms.
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individualistic
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a type of avoidance where a person refuses to discuss the conflict or to listen to the other person's argument
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nonnegotiation
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when you try and conceal your true purposes
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manipulation
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conflict strategies that attack a person's positive face of a person's negative face
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face-attacking
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A face attacking strategy where instead of focusing on a solution to a problem some members try to affix ____ to the other person.
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blame
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a method of winning an argument by inflicting psychological pain, by attacking the other person's self-concept
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verbal aggresiveness
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your willingness to argue for a point of view, your tendency to speak your mind on significant issues
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argumentativeness
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an approach to conflict in which you sacrifice your own needs for the needs of the other person
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accommodating style
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a conflict strategy in which stored-up prior grievances are introduced into present conflict
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gunnysacking
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a conflict strategy in which one person attacks the other with criticisms that are difficult to absorb
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beltlining
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the tendency to respond to something in a certain way
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attitude
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the conviction about the existence or reality of something or about the truth of some assertion
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belief
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an indicator of what a person thinks is good or bad, ethical or unethical, just or unjust
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value
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overt, observable actions
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behavior
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drawing a conclusion on the basis of the presence of clues or symptoms that frequently occur together
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reasoning from sign
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food, water, air are examples of _____ needs
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physiological
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security, stability, protection, freedom from fear, freedom from anxiety, freedom from chaos, structure, order, law are examples of ______ needs
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safety
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friendship, affection, relationships, interpersonal acceptance are examples of ________ and ______ needs
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belonging, love
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high self-evaluation, self-respect, self-esteem, esteem of others, strength, achievement, competency, reputation, prestige, status, fame, glory are examples of _____ needs
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self-esteem
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Doing what one is fitted for doing, self-fulfillment, actualizing one's potential are examples of _____.
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self-actualization
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show your listeners that you are knowledgeable and thoroughly familiar with your topic to demonstrate your ________
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competence
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When you move beyond focusing on values to urging your audience to do something about an issue, you've broached a ______________
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question of policy
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principle stating that listeners will actively seek out information that supports their beliefs and will actively avoid information that contradicts their existing beliefs
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selective exposure
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