For the facilitator it is a matter of getting both parties to agree to the meeting, making sure the meeting goes as well as possible, and then to carry out all of the afterward processing. For the victim, the idea is like a teeter-totter that depends on what type of crime was committed. Mostly a victim is willing to participate because it is important to them to get answers and to be able to hold the offender accountable. However, there are some cases where even the option and thought of meeting with their offender can put them further into distress. For the offender, they tend to lean more on the not participating side of the teeter-totter because many of them have said that it is easier to face a sentencing and jail than it is to face their victims (Amstutz 2009). Mostly though, offenders do participate and it helps them to realize what they have done and helps them hold themselves
For the facilitator it is a matter of getting both parties to agree to the meeting, making sure the meeting goes as well as possible, and then to carry out all of the afterward processing. For the victim, the idea is like a teeter-totter that depends on what type of crime was committed. Mostly a victim is willing to participate because it is important to them to get answers and to be able to hold the offender accountable. However, there are some cases where even the option and thought of meeting with their offender can put them further into distress. For the offender, they tend to lean more on the not participating side of the teeter-totter because many of them have said that it is easier to face a sentencing and jail than it is to face their victims (Amstutz 2009). Mostly though, offenders do participate and it helps them to realize what they have done and helps them hold themselves