Since men were the once who were in charge of gathering food for the table, they had to be out all the time while the women stayed home. In page 63, “Inwardly Okonkwo knew that the boys were still too young to understand fully the difficult art of preparing seed-yams. But he thought that one could not begin too early. Yam stood for manliness, and he who could feed his family on yams from one gravest to another was a very great man indeed. Okonkwo wanted his son to be a great farmer and a great man. He would stamp out the disquieting signs of laziness which he thought he already saw in him.” This shows how Okonkwo associates yams with manliness. The more yams a man is able to grow, the more respected he is in his village. This shows that men are judged in part by their ability to provide for their families. Since yams are a hard crop to grow, being a good provider is directly tied to being a hard worker. Okonkwo, having suffered embarrassment and poverty from his rather effeminate father (by his standards), will stop at nothing to keep his sons from the same fate – even if it means treating harshly as little boys. Okonkwo also interprets masculinity by looking at the man’s behavior towards women. He thinks that men should treat women harshly without disrespect. In the excerpt it state, “Okonkwo was inwardly pleased at his son’s development, and he knew it was due to Ikemefuna. He
Since men were the once who were in charge of gathering food for the table, they had to be out all the time while the women stayed home. In page 63, “Inwardly Okonkwo knew that the boys were still too young to understand fully the difficult art of preparing seed-yams. But he thought that one could not begin too early. Yam stood for manliness, and he who could feed his family on yams from one gravest to another was a very great man indeed. Okonkwo wanted his son to be a great farmer and a great man. He would stamp out the disquieting signs of laziness which he thought he already saw in him.” This shows how Okonkwo associates yams with manliness. The more yams a man is able to grow, the more respected he is in his village. This shows that men are judged in part by their ability to provide for their families. Since yams are a hard crop to grow, being a good provider is directly tied to being a hard worker. Okonkwo, having suffered embarrassment and poverty from his rather effeminate father (by his standards), will stop at nothing to keep his sons from the same fate – even if it means treating harshly as little boys. Okonkwo also interprets masculinity by looking at the man’s behavior towards women. He thinks that men should treat women harshly without disrespect. In the excerpt it state, “Okonkwo was inwardly pleased at his son’s development, and he knew it was due to Ikemefuna. He