In Chinua Achebe’s book Things Fall Apart, he tells the story of a man named Okonkwo whose life is ruled by the fear of being masculine and able to care for his family. Through the book we see how Okonkwo rules his household like a dictatorship, seeing his family as property. Due to Okonkwo seeing his family as possessions he is able to justify that it is okay for him to beat his wives and children. Okonkwo has prominent relationships with three of his children: Ikemefuna, Eznima, and Nwoye. Okonkwo expects perfection from his children, that his boys will not grow to be feminine and that the girls will grow beautiful and smart. The cause of Okonkwo’s fear of being feminine, lazy, and unable to provide for his family comes from his father Unoka.
