'The Vietnam War: My Marriage Was Falling Apart'

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This source is very critical to my paper because it introduces documentaries about veterans, who came back from the Vietnamese war. One of the documentaries shows the conversion of life before and after war. One of the veterans came home with PTSD, which results in many obstacles in his life, especially his marriage life. The veteran states “My marriage was falling apart”. He talks about how he always had sorrowful thoughts about the war in his mind. I can easily relate John Wade(from fiction story)to the veteran(nonfiction) , as John Wade was always thinking about the man he shot during the war and how this thought effected his marriage life. Also the veteran’s wife is similar to Wade’s wife, the veteran says: “She’s tried to tell me she

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