The article “The Myth of the Tight Pussy” emphasizes the myths we had created in our society due to the socialization we have between each other. It also highlights the way our culture shapes our ideals of sexuality. Our values, beliefs and behaviors are the ones that shape the way we define sex. These aspects depend on each individual since we are from distinct races, religious and ethnicities. This article tells us a little bit about how the definitions of “the myths of the perfect or ugly pussy” and other taboos have a different meaning since each individual get different ideas from their agents of socialization such as family, friends and media.…
Again, she submits to the male authority’s desire, Noonan is hero and victim and Stacy returns to her marginalized role as “a babe” (35) whom everyone wants to get a piece of—the objectified, sexualized woman, easily trapped and controlled by male…
They would not make their students sign such a code if this was not the case. However, their actions point to questions of whether or not they view virginity as more important in females than in males. These victims of sexual assault are made to feel guilty about what happened to them, and are more likely to think it is their fault, when this is not the case. In Mitzi Smith’s article “Fashioning Our Own Souls: A Womanist Reading of the Virgin-Whore Binary in Matthew and Revelation”, she states, “Yet women who are viewed as whores (sometimes called tramps, prostitutes, sluts, hoes, etc.) are constructed over against a supposed biological and social understanding of women as virgins. Virgins are primarily females and virginity is general expected of females” (Smith, 158).…
Possessing the Secret of Joy is the story of Tashi, an African woman of the fictional Olinkan tribe, who was a minor character in Walker’s previous novels The Color Purple and The Temple of My Familiar, takes the central stage in this novel. The novel is a series of interior monologues entwined with few letters that describe the story’s major events and the major character’s interpretations and reactions to those events. The chapters of the novel are named for the characters who narrate them, including Tashi, her sister-in-law Olivia, her husband Adam, and their son Benny, some of whom played minor roles in The Color Purple. The central theme of the novel is the cause and effects of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) as a cultural practice.…
Shakespeare’s representations of women in Much Ado About Nothing and The Taming of the Shrew are still highly relevant in our present context despite society and technological development. The societal expectation for women to marry before a certain age is reflected in Beatrice, Hero as well as Katherine from The Taming of the Shrew this coincides with the repeating motif of a women’s value being based on her marital status and virginity. This is still evident in our present society where shaming females for their sexual activity is common and virginity is still highly valued in countries such as South Korea. The expectation for women to marry before a certain age is also prevalent in our society where women are expected to marry before the…
This article by Carpenter is a bit lengthy, however, it reviews important points from Christina Rossetti’s poem, Goblin Market. Carpenter discusses female sexual desire, particular aspects of homoerotic sexuality, sisterhood, virginity, Christianity, and speculations of the true intended audience. We are provided with historical evidence regarding the different women’s views from the 1860s, also those views of the Church during that time. Another important aspect that can be found in this article is the significance of fairytale-like qualities that mirrors female sexual needs and consumption.…
Many classical pieces of widely disseminated world literature, such as the Bible, nurtured a universal patriarchal culture that remains prevalent today. Some would argue that this patriarchy, supposedly founded on the principle that women are physiologically and intellectually inferior to males, suspiciously resembles a fear-induced endeavor to control the female race and society as a whole. One common method of control relies upon the dictation of what females can or cannot do with their bodies. For example, premarital sexual purity was once the sole identifier of an upstanding woman, and those women who did not follow this social code were cast out from their communities (ex. Helen Schlegel in Howards End).…
As a result, it reveals how men treat their lovers and how women desire affection, if not love, in their sexual encounters. Likewise, the irony of masculine possessiveness underlines the unfairness of double standards in sexuality. Still, as women from all social circles exhibit sexual permissiveness, they access power that a traditional patriarchal society otherwise denies them. Love may come with it or not but most importantly, women control their bodies and have sex as they please outside social conventions. Embracing the female body as their sole property, multiple sexual partners can be a tool for women’s sexual liberation and…
This excerpt is taken from a book named “We should all be feminist” written by “Chaimanda Agnozi Uganda”. This book contains evidences and explains the grievances of the marginalized segment of society that is women which is more than half of population of mankind. Women aren’t treated in the same way as men are treated in our society. Men are always considered as for job and money earning machines while women are restricted to four walls of home. The waiter in hotels always greet men and ignores the women accompanying him.…
The Early Church fathers produced a body of literature that concern virginity, marriage in women in order to justify and legitimize the patriarchal system of the time. According to these texts written by the church fathers, women can only become close to god through their virginity and/or martyrdom. Virginity and martyrdom was even preferred over marriage by the church fathers and even some of the women refused to be married. Hence the social construct that is created by this, is that the marriage, sex and the female body is evil and sinful and giving up not only their possessions, but their body and life actually has them married to Christ and hence they can be released and freed from a misogynistic…
Jacqueline Murray, the professor of Department of History at University of Windsor, shows how women emerge in the thirteenth-century manuals as a ’marked’ category defined by their reproductive and sexual functions, viewed above all in terms of how their own sexual status (widow, wife, virgin, prostitute) contributes to the evaluation of males who commit sexual sin with them. ( 13) The Wife thinks that the virginity is not very important because our bodies were given us to use. She despises virginity but she does not tell anyone. The Wife speaks about sexuality in natural way which is very brave and unusual in her century.…
Since the dawn of civilized society, men have been attempting to persuade women into intimate relationships. Only in the last hundred years has a woman’s purity stopped being directly correlated to her value as person, and only in the last fifty years, though still stigmatized by some, have women been able to enjoy the pleasure of sex without the commitment of marriage and not have the act be a life ruining choice. While today we might attribute this to the woman’s rights movement, and rightly so, we cannot forget those who spoke out against the absurdity that women would become tainted or somehow harmed by consensual love. Done’s poem “The Flea” and Marvell’s poem “To His Coy Mistress” made subtle arguments in favor of a woman’s right to…
For women, they felt that being female affected their sexuality. Specifically, many female’s explained that they felt that when girls sleep around they are branded with the words ‘sluts’ or ‘whores.’ (Maas et al., 2015, p.624). Compared to women, men did not have these titles, this is where the sexual double standard is relevant. Furthermore, negative beliefs about sex can be attributed to the sexual scripting theory.…
Virginity is a social construct. There are no biological indicators of it, yet it has been the determinant of a woman 's social worth, or at least an easy way for her social status to fall at the drop of a hat, for centuries. The logic behind the importance of a woman being a virgin until marriage was directly tied into the idea that a wife is her husband 's property. As continuing one 's…
Virginity is a gift. A gift to our husband or wife someday or when the right time…