Nevertheless, one of the first symbols that Spencer uses in his poem is the concept of how women lure men. The author uses a symbol to explain how this lure traps men, “Is it that mens frayle eyes, which gaze too bold, she may entangle in that golden snare:” (Gardner …show more content…
This is because once you have fallen for the deception and lure you will now forever belong to this woman, for example “fondnesse it were for any being free, To covet fetters, though they golden bee” (Gardner 462). This verse criticizes the notion of institutional marriage comparing it to the chains of dying freedom. The author's criticism behind this notion is that he does not believe that it is an actual legitimate representation of affection. The reason why the author disbelieves that this marriage is an actual representation of affection is because within this marriage an individual’s freedom values less than having a perfect