Especially in light of one of the women being married and now with a child, which could be his even though she says it is not. I told him, “There is the possibility of a whole lot more stuff hitting the fan.” Looking back, that may not have been the most hopeful thing to say, but I felt I needed to say it. In response, he asked, “What should I do?” I said, “What does it look like for you to ask those you have sinned against for forgiveness?” He gives me a blank stare. I try to interpret what his look is about. Did he not understand my question or does he not think he needs to ask the women for forgiveness. So I ask, “Do you think you have sinned against them?” He says, “Yes, I need to ask them to forgive me.” I tell him that he can write a letter, say it face to face or some other way that is more comfortable for him. He agrees to think and pray that
Especially in light of one of the women being married and now with a child, which could be his even though she says it is not. I told him, “There is the possibility of a whole lot more stuff hitting the fan.” Looking back, that may not have been the most hopeful thing to say, but I felt I needed to say it. In response, he asked, “What should I do?” I said, “What does it look like for you to ask those you have sinned against for forgiveness?” He gives me a blank stare. I try to interpret what his look is about. Did he not understand my question or does he not think he needs to ask the women for forgiveness. So I ask, “Do you think you have sinned against them?” He says, “Yes, I need to ask them to forgive me.” I tell him that he can write a letter, say it face to face or some other way that is more comfortable for him. He agrees to think and pray that