Love In Our Culture Short Story

Improved Essays
Every day, we come across love in our culture. We are surrounded by it. It is in our movies, novels, poems, and they all celebrate it as if it is all that we need. We have come to expect love to be the cure-all for all of our life’s problems, which often leads to our relationships suffering. The three short stories, “That Color” by Jon McGregor, “Reunion” by Edward Mullany, and “The Ache” by Elena Bossi, all tell the same story: love is not enough. There are other aspects of relationships that are just as, if not more important than love; things like understanding, compassion, and respect. And the success of our relationships hinges on these deeper and more important values. The story of “The Ache” tells a romantic tale of loss and yearning. …show more content…
It tells a tale of an ex-husband and ex-wife. They meet at the department store while shopping with their respective new spouses. Right off the bat, the woman shows no respect to her current spouse by intentionally sitting next to her ex-husband, excusing it by saying “I’d been shopping all day, so in a way I was able to rationalize it”. But by saying “in a way”, even she admits that what she is doing is wrong. Similarly, her ex-husband, Jack, is disrespectful towards his current wife by engaging with his ex-wife in a suspicious matter—“But Jack and I had been divorced long enough to know that speaking of each other’s mates when those mates weren’t there to defend themselves inevitably led to suspicions of jealousy, even if what was said was meant to be funny, so we’d made it a rule to keep our mouths shut.” When his wife calls him, he gets up, but not before looking into the bag of his ex-wife that contains Christmas presents. What is worse is how his ex-wife reacts. Jack’s wife comes out from the fitting room, and sees Jack’s hand in his ex-wife’s bag, and his ex-wife uses this opportunity to sabotage her ex-husband’s relationship—“I smiled in a way that was suggestive rather than friendly, and arched just one of my eyebrows”. This in turn results in the woman turning away in tears, showing that she is obviously hurt. Over the course of the story, we notice implications that Jack and his ex-wife still share feelings for each other. It is not too far fetched to say that they were in love when they were married, but they are no longer together. With how both of them behave in the story, it is no surprise why they are not married, and why we can expect their current relationships to not work out either. Unlike in “The Ache” and “That Color”, the main characters in this story show no sign of respect towards their spouses. This further proves that there is more to a

Related Documents

  • Superior Essays

    Love may be a puzzling concept that is complex to understand. Love is unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another. Love can be seen as a strong affection for another derived out of kinship or personal ties; however it can also be evident in the devotion to a person, or a way of life. In the short stories “Killings” and “A Rose for Emily” both demonstrate different forms of love, and the outcome of what love can lead too. Love of one's personal ideals impairs one's capacity to see their weaknesses and faults.…

    • 1299 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    People all over the world fall in and out of love every single day, and sometimes a person’s love story is not at all how they wanted it to be. This is shown in two different love stories. In Romeo and Juliet written by William Shakespeare, readers meet a boy named Romeo and a girl named Juliet who have a forbidden love. Because of their love, they feel that killing themselves is the best way to be together. And in the book Naughts and Crosses written by Malorie Blackman, This is a story of not only forbidden love, but it also ties in aspects of racism.…

    • 1194 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Many individuals spend their lives wondering about how to experience true love. However, those who understand it know that effort and patience must be put into a relationship in order to find pure love. This message is vividly prevalent in the short stories "Two Kinds", “The Grandfather”, “The Marigolds”, and “The Osage Orange Tree”. The overarching theme in these works of growing a relationship through time and earnest attempt is developed through symbolism by the authors of these works. Indeed, the themes and symbolisms of the texts help depict the overall message portrayed by them.…

    • 704 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Love will survive all is a common theme in literature, but even more common is the ‘forbidden love’ archetype. In the novel Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen and the movie The Notebook by Jeremy Levin, people sometimes listen to their hearts rather than their brains. Love is powerful force that can give both strengths and weaknesses, it can make one do unexpected things and holds the ability to change the course of one’s whole life. Through theme and symbols love is shown to endure through time, problems, and separation. To begin, love is shown to face many problems in both stories.…

    • 1187 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Cormier, the author of the short story “Another of Mike’s Girls”, believed that love had a strong influence over the lives of those who are impacted by it. Not all love is romantic, and, often times, love is felt by a parent to their child. That kind of love, as mature as it may be, makes people as intransigent as the typical teen romance. Affection causes people to be irrational in their thinking, but it also can consume people. It can bring people up to the point”…of triumph and pride,” but it can also damage spirits and ”…lack motivation.”…

    • 903 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Bell Hooks, Lynn M. Phillips, and Simone De Beauvoir talked about what is good and what is bad love. Love and abuse or sexual violence are often misunderstood by people for various reasons. In this paper, I will argue that it cannot be called love if there are any vicious purpose behinds one’s will that cause anyone harm. In other words, love should not include any unpleasant and hurtful elements, that is the opposite of “recognition, respect, care, affection, trust, commitment, honest, and open communication” (Hooks, p.5). Bell Hooks in “All About Love” gives the love definition, that love is both an action and an intention to enlarge and strengthen one’s self in order to support and promote one’s own or others’ spiritual growth (Hooks, p.4).…

    • 1357 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Throughout Barbara Frederickson’s Love 2.0, new ways to think and feel about life and love are proposed to the reader. She delves in on love as it relates to us physically and cognitively. Personally, I have always carried the belief that without love, we are not truly alive and thriving, but are instead barely surviving. But when I say love, I’m not talking about the strong love you would feel for a significant other, the filial love between a mother and child, or even that strong love a dog feels for its owner. Instead, I am referring to the smaller instances of love felt within things and moments, the joy felt when just having a cup of coffee with friends, or just laying down on the beach, or just sitting and appreciating nature.…

    • 921 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Making love has centuries of dramatic stories and myths surrounding it. The consequence is that you go into the act of having an intercourse for the first time with unreasonable expectations. This leads to quite a few physical and emotional complications. Here are the answers to some questions that might be on your mind and a few things which you can reasonably expect from your first sexual encounter. Will it be painful?…

    • 284 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Emotions are key to understanding ourselves. They are a shortcut to the layers of our personality, they help us navigate through reality, and even fill the cognitive gap between our conscious and subconscious minds. Emotions can define our deportment entirely if we succumb to them, but it is possible to control them— by giving them a constructive direction instead. Barbara Fredrickson and Daniel Gilbert, both highlight the importance and power of emotions. In both of their stories, they convey the fact that we are looking at love the wrong way.…

    • 996 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Barbara Frederickson's take on love is truly compelling. Rather than summarizing love in the cliche-like fashion that Americans have grown accustomed to, Frederickson takes an entirely new spin on love and its relation to the human biology. There are no loose statements; each idea has a specific set of reasons for being introduced into the passage as well as experimental evidence to emphasize that the ideas are not hypothetical, but proven. Frederickson's findings could serve to be invaluable in the world today. With all of the distractions that people are exposed to during every minute of every day; sometimes the most essential things in life, are not given the required amount of attention.…

    • 1992 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The stories, “"A Temporary Matter" ” by Jhumpa Lahiri and "Love Must Not Be Forgotten by Zhang Jie, use the elements, character and symbolism to discuss love and reveals that love must be equally invested within a relationship to keep the relationship active. Analyzing the symbolism in "A Temporary Matter" , It can be said that since Shoba and Shukumar lost the baby, they have both lost the love and passion to nourish their relationship by focusing on food and the pantry. “The pantry was always stocked with extra bottles of olive and corn oil, depending on whether they were cooking Italian or Indian. There were endless boxes of pasta in all shapes and colors,zippered sacks of basmati rice, whole sides of lambs and goats from the Muslim butchers…

    • 1203 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    As humans, we’re almost all hardwired to search for love. Love is something that is said to be one of the most sought-after things in life. Love comes in the form of lovers, family, friends, and even self-love. To some, love is the saving grace by which people can find redemption. To others, love is a prison, something that creates weaknesses in people.…

    • 1226 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Great Essays

    Rene Magritte's The Lovers

    • 2328 Words
    • 10 Pages

    In every romance or drama movie, the boy meets a girl, boy saves the girl (or vice versa), and then they fall in love. We see this scenario repeated in all sorts of media, but also in our own lives. Why do we fall in love? The answer is not always clear, but one thing for certain is that love is important for us as humans. “The lover” figure exists for us because love is something that all of us are ‘supposed’ to find.…

    • 2328 Words
    • 10 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Kaleidoscope Love is a simple word with a complex meaning. Love can either bring about the happiest, most exuberating moments or the most depressing, chaotic time in a person’s life. Although people would have better luck flipping a coin than finding their true love, something in the human psyche tells us to go to the ends of the earth to search for a piece of “love”, or what thousands of romantic comedies like 16 Candles defines as love. Everyone manages to find love in one form or another; however, each person has a different way of attaining love. For instance, in the novel Beloved by Toni Morrison, Sethe is facing the conflict of following her emotions or using her logic when cultivating relationships with people.…

    • 801 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Every day we, as human, go through many different kinds of emotion. There is one that can cause us to feel so much happiness, and also so much pain. Love is a big topic that we can never discover everything about it in a short period of time. There are many types and levels of love, but the one affects us the most would be “love without expectations”. In another word, people often call it “true love”.…

    • 902 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays

Related Topics