Initial Responses to the Recording
The most prominent response I felt in listening to my original recording was sadness. I heard myself speaking so tentatively, so carefully, as if I was afraid of the consequences if someone happened to listen to my monologue and I hadn’t given the “right” answers. Looking back, I know I held a fear of being embarrassed and humiliated for my ignorance and blindness. I imagined being “schooled” …show more content…
126–127). But I do now see myself as a “racial/cultural being” (Sue, 2006, p. 126), I have definitely gained awareness of the sociopolitical influences on racism, I’ve come to appreciate diversity, and I am definitely “becoming more committed to eradicating oppression” (p. 126). I don’t, however, feel confident that I have developed the “inner sense of security and strength” necessary to “function in a society that is only marginally accepting of integratively aware White persons” (Sue, 2006, p. 127). I hadn’t thought much about being accepted in that way, but maybe part of settling into this stage is realizing that acceptance is no longer the most important quality to