In short, this case study goes into details on how to manage a conflict through forgiveness, we learned there are several ways to respond to Managing a conflict through forgiveness. Therefore, in this case study I will define some key concepts in the case study that relates to our reading assignment. Firstly, in the case study, Dave’s lied to his girlfriend and took his ex-girl Tina’s to the concert is compared can be compared to one of the key concept relationship transgressions. Relational transgressions are defined as extremely problematic situations in which core rules of a relationship are violated, leaving high emotional residues (Cahn, D., &. Abigail, R. A, 2014, p. 204).…
In John Lederach’s (2001) article, Five Qualities of Practce in Support of Reconciliation Process, he argues that the path to forgiveness and reconciliation on a global scale is a process, not just a choice. The five qualities of practice he identifies are: 1. Reconciliation as relationship centric – here Lederach (2001) explains that reconciliation starts with the relationship not just the “issues” between those involved in the conflict. 2. Reconciliation as accompaniment – He explains when a third party becomes involved in trying to resolve a conflict (a mediator)…
This can be seen in the example of Conor Mcbride. Conor stated “with the Grosmaires’ forgiveness, I could accept the responsibility and not be condemned” (Kumar 74). Through restorative justice he received a second chance on life. On the other hand, Kumar also achieved his goal through the victim's family. Ann’s mother notes, “Forgiveness for me was self-preservation” (Kumar 74).…
The battle someone faces can help in recognizing who he or she truly is. The utilization of the knowledge they discover on their journey will determine the result of their battle. For this battle to even begin, a force of opposition must be present. In John Knowles novel A Separate Peace, he conveys the battle Gene Forrester goes through to discover himself. Gene’s battle occurs at the Devon School, where he discovers the existence of his enemy.…
As Christians, we understand God forgave of our sins, and as Christians, we must forgive others of theirs. The better understand what forgiveness is, Sande and Johnson point out what is and what is not forgiveness. Within this last step, we find a solution for the conflict, one that embodies what the Lord has commanded us to do. The method presented by Sande and Johnson is yet another way to resolve conflict. For Christians, it offers a way to resolve conflict through their values and beliefs.…
Through the Gates of Splendor This book is a wonderful truth, written by Elisabeth Elliot, about the bibliography of five young men being called to the mission field. All five of these men come from diverse upbringings and go to different regions of Ecuador, to work with different tribes. But all five of these men have something in common, they all stand for Christ and want to spread His Word.…
Decisions we make today shape the world we will see tomorrow. That’s why making ethical decisions is extremely important to make the world a better place to live. In his essay “Ethics and the New Genetics,” philosopher Tenzin Gyatso, the spiritual leader of the Central Tibetan Administration and the fourteenth Dalai Lama, asserts that our power is inextricably entwined with our moral responsibility. In her essay “Faith and Diplomacy,” Madeleine Albright, a professor at Georgetown University and former U.S Secretary of State, argues that religion is a force that can be used in international communications. Both essays emphasize the importance of making ethical decisions.…
Restoration The solution to human’s problems is to restore people to himself that they might be fully reconciled to a relationship with him which was severed due to sin, according to Lecture 5. Grace and faith play a role in Christian salvation because we must have faith in God and Jesus that we will once again walk with them in eternal life and we must know that Jesus is the means of grace. The transformation of self and society is to believe in how one can receive forgiveness, fellowship and restoration with God, according the chapter 8 of the textbook “The Beginning Wisdom”.…
Repentance is another important factor in achieving redemption. It is more spiritual than asking for forgiveness for things you have wrongfully done. God has to be put first and there has to be a change of heart. There has to be willingness to abort any sin and admit their faults, then emotional peace can be achieved. Individuals are neither born good or evil, but display equal capability for both.…
The Government’s Failure to Facilitate Reconciliation in Post-Genocide Rwanda After the genocide of 1994, Rwanda had strict ethnic divides between the Hutus, Tutsis, and Twa. Some 800,000 Tutsis and moderate Hutus were murdered, and the population was torn apart without much guidance to initiate the healing process. Despite implementing various legal and cultural efforts to help the country recover, the Rwandan government did not do enough to help said process; there are still societal divides and forced isolations left in the wake of the genocide. The International Court Tribunal of Rwanda (ICTR) was inefficient and wasted both time and money in trying perpetrators of the genocide; its incompetence prolonged the freedom the criminals enjoyed…
Room for a Truthful Story: Critiquing Toronto 's Reconciliation Methodology as Appropriation Canada 's existence as a colonized nation in a post-colonial environment requires its citizens and its institutions to have an understanding of decolonization and reconciliation methods. As a majour city within the established nation, Toronto has employed a simple method of acknowledging Canada 's history by naming streets after people that the nation believes to be worth honouring. Yet these surface patches of honour may be understood as continued acts of oppression, colonial power and of the insincere desire for reconciliation. In this paper, I will argue that Toronto 's attempts to honour Tom Longboat by naming a street after him, the space known…
In addressing matters with regards to a national examination on the reconciliation of Indigenous Australians, the major religious traditions in Australia have all contributed to the area of Aboriginal welfare and acknowledged the adversity and maltreatment they have endured at the hands of white culture. For example, Christian churches and the Islamic councils have played an integral part in the long process of reconciliation with Indigenous Australians since the recognition of Aboriginal mistreatment post WW2. However, examination of such relationships must differentiate both its positive and negative factors. For example, Christian churches in the past believed they were acting in care to Indigenous peoples, however over time, it was evident…
Purpose The Wounded Healer: Ministry in Contemporary Society is written by Henri Nouwen. Henri Nouwen was much more than an author, he was also a priest, teacher, theologian, and writer who was fluent in five languages. He was born in Holland and became an ordained priest at the age of 25. Nouwen earned a degree in psychology at the Catholic University of Nijmegen and moved to the United states at 32 to continue to further his studies.…
Sage 1.The purpose of Yom Kippur is to bring about reconciliation between people and between individuals and God. 2.Traditionally it is the day where God decides fate of each and everyone of us. 3.Fate is dramatic, but this day is viewed as a happy one by those who celebrate. It is celebrated because of its reconciliation, and draws us closer to God.…
Henri Nouwen’s book The Wounded Healer: Ministry In Contemporary Society provides a valuable introspective approach to providing pastoral care and serving in Christian leadership in contemporary society. Nouwen provides a great overview of the wounds and suffering that plagues modern society, the current generation, individual people, and the Christian ministers who are called to serve those in need. (Nouwen, 3)…