Ordinary People Movie Essay

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In the movie Ordinary People a family experience certain things that does not occur in an typical everyday average family. These experience changes their attitude towards each other. In addition to that their perception of the world around them. Such as the way other people perceive them as and their outlook on other people.
How a person interacts with those around them and the actions that they choose to engage in is how they are often times perceived as. For example Beth 's overall persona comes off as a perfectionist. She wants everything to be her way and gets extremely frustrated when it’s not. She has fooled herself and other people around her into thinking that everything in her household is fine and everything is under control. When
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For example both Beth and Conrad are not open to experience. Beth wants things to be her way and refuses to listen to anyone’s opinion. Conrad on the other hand has a hard time forming relationships with others and keeps things to himself. On the contrary Calvin is. He’s a people pleaser and he would participate in different activities. Another personality trait is consciousness. All three of them are high in consciousness. For instance Beth is organized and needs to have everything done her way. Conrad is very hard on himself. Calvin is punctual. In spite of that both Beth and Calvin are both extraversion. Calvin enjoys communicating and interacting with everyone and Beth always wants to be the center of attention. Which is different from Conrad who prefers to be alone most of the time. However that doesn’t mean that they always get along with others around other people. Beth has a hard time interacting with her son while Conrad has a hard time interacting with people in general. However Calvin gets along with everyone. Not only does Beth and Conrad have the same level of neuroticism but, they both have the same level of anxiety. Beth doesn’t know hoe to deal with Conrad which is why she is cold towards him. Conrad on the other hand has a hard time expressing himself and when stressed usually lashes out on people. While Calvin is a flexible person and tries to compromise in order keep everyone

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