Optimism In 'Year Of Impossible Goodbyes'

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Sookan becomes more optimistic in many ways throughout the book Year of Impossible Goodbyes when faced with the following situations: finding out the war has ended, her mother becoming very sick and then making it through, and hearing that they will be escaping to the north. One day Kisa comes running home yelling that the war is finally ending and the Japanese have lost. This is a very exciting moment for not just sookan, but for all of North Korea. It helps her become more optimistic and believe that she and her family may finally have a happy and bright future and that she may do all the things she has only dreamt of doing her entire life. "I suddenly wanted to do all the things I had been dreaming of for all of these years. (Choi 88-89) She has always dreamt of what it might be like to be free, and her dream finally comes true when she experiences freedom.
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They have decided to attempt to escape North Korea. This is a big step for her family and her, because they are finally allowing themselves to take the step they need to achieve happiness. It is a big risk, but if all ends well they will not regret it. This determination helps her become more optimistic as she realizes that if they make it over, they will finally escape their dismal lives in North Korea and they will have the opportunity for a brighter future. "It was hard to believe we were finally leaving Pyongyang. We were all ready." ( Choi 125) She has been waiting for this moment a long time, hoping that making it to the other side will bring her happiness and a second chance.
Because of her optimistic outlook she remains positive, knowing that no matter what, they will overcome these horrible circumstances someday. Our world would be a better place if everyone had Sookan’s optimistic attitude, because even in the toughest of situation, a positive outlook always has a positive effect on the

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