Barbara Ann Williams: My Mother

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My mom name is Barbara Ann Williams. She was the born March 7th 1957. My mom was the seventh child of 18. She meet my father when she was 16 and married him and move to Coffeyville, Ks. One year later when my mom was seventeen I was conceived. During the time of my mom pregnancy my dad lost his oldest sister who raised him on his birthdate in 1975. My Aunt Clara was my mom favorite sister in-law and that’s when she knew what she was going to named me.
My mom was a short petite seventeen year old young lady. She said she gain over fifty pounds during her pregnancy. She went into labor with me on August 8, 1975. She had a very difficult labor with me. Her cervix would not spread and she never would dilate past two cm. After 48 hours of labor
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When we started elementary school my mom started to teach me responsibilities of staying home with my brother and sister while they worked. During that time microwave was not around and you better not touch or turn on the gas stove. I became the best sandwich maker ever. My mom said racism was still going own while I was growing up, I didn’t get to experience none of the things that she endured as a child or even into her young adult years. She was happy that she didn’t raised in the south because she felt that was the biggest place we would feel the impact of racism.
My mom said that times where tough but, they was a lot easier and calmer than raising kids now. We didn’t have all the fancy phones, internet and big televisions like now. We played outside like kids do. We read books and went to the library twice a week and always had family day on Saturday’s. Nothing to traumatic happen during the time of my siblings or my birth that cause her stress. The only thing she really had to worry about is being called a “nigger” or her kids being called one and not show reactions to it. She always says that no reaction to ignorance is always the best reaction you can

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