Mr. Shama acknowledges that he has not tried to communicate with the mother directly, and has chosen to communicate via writing. He felt he needed to document his attempts to resolve issues. He also believes that they did not communicate when they were together.
Mr. Shama discussed his perception of Matheus. He indicated that the child is smart.
Mr. Shama perceives the child to be very shy. The father stated that Matheus cowers at times, especially with his mother. With father he has more independence and the opportunity to be himself. With his mother there is a different experience. He is very talkative when he is comfortable. He is a great speller. He doesn’t watch a lot of television or video games. He does play Lego’s. Mr. Shama stated that he tries to keep the child active.
He is a cautious child. At …show more content…
Shama stated that the parents had cultural differences. The father stated that he was born and raised in the United States. He grew up in the Bronx, attended Catholic Elementary School. Both his parents worked and raised him. In contrast Ms. Shama was born in Brazil and raised in a small town, which was dangerous. He believed she was provincial in her mindset. Her protective upbringing has impacted her parenting. She is a helicopter parent, she has always been anxious about the child.
He believes the child need the opportunity to explore.
Mr. Shama discussed the future for the child. He indicated that he believes it is best for the child to should spend equal time with both parents. He has two different experiences with each parent.
Mr. Shama stated that he would like joint-decision making but because they do not speak, he doesn’t think this is viable. He does think spheres of influence, he would make educational and religious and extracurricular and she makes medical decisions. He believes they would be able to consult with each other. He is willing to consider utilizing a parent coordinator to facilitate communication between the
Mr. Shama discussed his perception of Matheus. He indicated that the child is smart.
Mr. Shama perceives the child to be very shy. The father stated that Matheus cowers at times, especially with his mother. With father he has more independence and the opportunity to be himself. With his mother there is a different experience. He is very talkative when he is comfortable. He is a great speller. He doesn’t watch a lot of television or video games. He does play Lego’s. Mr. Shama stated that he tries to keep the child active.
He is a cautious child. At …show more content…
Shama stated that the parents had cultural differences. The father stated that he was born and raised in the United States. He grew up in the Bronx, attended Catholic Elementary School. Both his parents worked and raised him. In contrast Ms. Shama was born in Brazil and raised in a small town, which was dangerous. He believed she was provincial in her mindset. Her protective upbringing has impacted her parenting. She is a helicopter parent, she has always been anxious about the child.
He believes the child need the opportunity to explore.
Mr. Shama discussed the future for the child. He indicated that he believes it is best for the child to should spend equal time with both parents. He has two different experiences with each parent.
Mr. Shama stated that he would like joint-decision making but because they do not speak, he doesn’t think this is viable. He does think spheres of influence, he would make educational and religious and extracurricular and she makes medical decisions. He believes they would be able to consult with each other. He is willing to consider utilizing a parent coordinator to facilitate communication between the