Jing-Mei and her mother are the main actors in this story. Even though Jing-Mei provides us with her perspective of the situation I sympathize the most with her mother. Her mother commits some common mistakes as many parents do. She tries to live through her daughter and make her become what she wants. However, her actions are not the most delicate, neither is her personality. She fits the stereotype of strict asian parent. She attempts to get the best out of her daughter but sadly her methods are not well executed or perceived. In addition Jing-Mei wants to go against her mother. If her mother wants her to try her best she would do as little as possible. The author states “I was determined not to try” (Tan 387) and that attitude caused struggle between them both. Each one is pulling Jing-Mei to a totally opposite direction. After the disastrous talent show her mother reflects her frustration through her
Jing-Mei and her mother are the main actors in this story. Even though Jing-Mei provides us with her perspective of the situation I sympathize the most with her mother. Her mother commits some common mistakes as many parents do. She tries to live through her daughter and make her become what she wants. However, her actions are not the most delicate, neither is her personality. She fits the stereotype of strict asian parent. She attempts to get the best out of her daughter but sadly her methods are not well executed or perceived. In addition Jing-Mei wants to go against her mother. If her mother wants her to try her best she would do as little as possible. The author states “I was determined not to try” (Tan 387) and that attitude caused struggle between them both. Each one is pulling Jing-Mei to a totally opposite direction. After the disastrous talent show her mother reflects her frustration through her