In the reading of Epictetus, The Enchiridion, the attention is hovered over what is and is not in our control. There is only so much a person can control, and that is their own actions, and the uncontrollable happens to not be their own. It is preferred to “totally suppress desire: for, if you desire any of the things that are not in your control, you definitely will be disappointed… Use only the appropriate actions of pursuit and avoidance; and even these lightly, and with gentleness and reservation” (2). It is considered selfish to want and wish for things that are out of one's reach, that is why having reasonable goals is a more suitable choice. Additionally, if one yearns for a loved one to live forever and be immortal, it is foolish of them, first of all since it is out of their control, and they will…