Letting their child drop out of school because they can 't afford the tuition is definitely not a wise idea, and it is not fair to let their child have the incomplete education. Also, Linda’s family is pressuring her to not end her marriage which emphasizes that the male or heterosexuality attributes to the patriarchal society that the female is always undergoing the dominate power from male identity. Recalling Pascoe’s book, she has used many sexualized vocabulary examples to present to us that masculinity is not a homogenous category that any boy possesses by virtue of being male, but, rather masculinity – as constituted and understood in the social world ( Pascoe pg. 5). It shows a minimized but important connection that our society definitely contains generalized inequality. The inequality is so strong that it has formed into privilege and power for the male dominant world, which influences us on the daily basis. This privilege or power is attributed to the patriarchal society in which we are living, so when Linda’s family tries to persuade her to maintain their marriage and forgive her husband, the family is under the pressure of this form of masculinity privilege …show more content…
I took the advice to take the lead as the research and organized data sub-team, but at the same time I still was looking forward to be involved with the clients’ interviews. I have found that after we received the suggestion from the group, many of my other group members naturally acquiesced in dividing me to the research group. For example, one of my group members was always saying all five of us which always excluded me in their conversation and sometimes in our CAP planned meeting. Based on this situation, I have talked to my members to try to at least be involved with their interview work. And at the same time, I asked them why were they always separating me from some of the off-campus group activity. Most of my group members explained that they just try to distribute the work more efficiently and avoid the embarrassing moment that in fact with English as my second language, my current skills may be challenging to set up the interview with clients. On the other hand, I still insisted my argument that if I do not have chance to complete any interview with clients, my CAP project will not be completed. Even if I can only work on one interview, I will still have a better experience with the