Right after Addie dies, Anse forces Dewey Dell to cook dinner even though she is grieving herself.
“Pa looks down at the face, at the black sprawl of Dewey Dell's hair, the outflung arms, the clutched fan now motionless on the fading quilt. ‘I reckon you better get supper on,’ he says. Dewey Dell does not move. ‘Git up, now, and put supper on,’ pa says. ‘We got to keep our strength up. I reckon Doctor Pea-body's right hungry, coming all this way. And Cash'll need to eat quick and get back to work so he can finish it in time.’”(50)
When Dewey Dell does make dinner, her father does not appreciate it. “Where’s that big fish Bud caught sister?” [Anse] says…”I never had no time to cook it.” “Plain turnip greens is mighty spindling eating for a man my size,”…”You ought to took time,” (60)
Anse also gets angry at Jewel for buying a horse with his own money rather than being proud of his son for his first business