Psychological Conformity In Logan Feyes's The Sociology Of Leopard Man

Improved Essays
Do you, as an individual, conform to society or do you like to show people that you are different than most others? Out of the seven billion people who live in this world, most would say they conform to society, which is very natural. Humans are social beings and conforming to society is one way that we show each other that we are like them. Sometimes we feel obligated to conform by the people we respect, look up to, or people who are in higher positions than us. In the article, “The Sociology of Leopard Man”, Logan Feyes states that, “conformity can be seen as the world’s most common but dangerous psychological disorder.” (6). I completely agree with his statement but do you believe that conformity is the most dangerous psychological …show more content…
We dress similarly to the people around us. We act differently when we are around different people so that we feel like we fit in more. Like others, I have and still conform to society. In eighth grade, I moved to a different state and I had no friends. Because I had no friends, I started to become very sad and I never wanted to leave my room. I became slightly depressed because I missed all of my friends from back home and I knew that they were still making more friends and living their lives without me. I wasn’t as social in school as I was at my old school because I didn’t have any other support system besides my family. I thought the best way to make friends was to conform and start dressing like the kids at my school. I also began listening to the same music that everyone liked, so that I could have something to talk about with them. I started making friends easily after that because we had similar interests. After a while, I realized that hiding my true self and conforming to their interests wasn’t going to help me. I started sharing my interests with my new friends and found out that a lot of them liked the same things that I did. Soon after that, I decided that I couldn’t live in the past and I had to live my new life in my new town. I started looking at life positively and decided that moving was supposed to show me something important in life: being yourself is how you’ll be happy. …show more content…
In fact, social media and celebrities can sometimes influence these disorders. Anorexia is a type of eating disorder which is when someone has “a lack or loss of appetite for food”. It usually begins when someone sees themselves as ‘fat’, according to society, and they force themselves not to eat so that they won’t look ‘fat’ anymore. It is a very serious disorder which can be caused by anything. For example, let’s say there is young girl who wants to look like a model, but her body is not the same size or shape as a certain model or celebrity. She may begin to diet and eat less so that she will lose weight. After a while, it could turn into something much more serious, like anorexia, in which conforming to society’s ‘norms’ has affected her mental state. Her desire to look like a model, changed into something more serious. Nowadays, teenagers have social media right at their fingertips connecting them to the whole world. They have access to everything which includes looking at celebrities and comparing themselves to those people. These psychological disorders can occur much faster than before. I have personally observed how conformity has psychologically affected one of my best friends. It all began in sixth grade when she tried to be more like the girls at our school. She

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Conformity can be a major problem, leading to dangerous and negative impacts, but at the same time it can be a good thing. For example, if an individual has bad habits, but looks to others who have better habits, that individual can be influenced to be more like them and change those habits (Durlauf 138). The different motivations that are…

    • 1854 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Further analysis will demonstrate the ways in which conforming to the conventions of society can have damaging effects by limiting the individual thoughts of people and their happiness. Society’s behavior is guided by a powerful set of unwritten rules. Those that act outside of the rules receive ridicule, criticism, or rejection. The main driving force which draws people to conform is their desire to feel accepted. In order to feel accepted, people often conform however, “When you adopt the standards and values of someone else, you surrender your own integrity [and] become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being”- Eleanor Roosevelt.…

    • 1173 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Society pushes us to be “normal”, and if we don’t fit the norm, we are ridiculed. We as a culture are pushed in a certain direction and forced to try and fit certain molds and we can be changed and can change ourselves to fit into society. A good example of being pushed to fit a mold is the military. Gwynne Dyer talks about the military creating a group identity in her article “Anybody’s Son Will…

    • 1341 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    But one thing you never get use to is losing all your friends, every, last, one of them. When you are on the opposite side of the country it is not the most effective way to stay social and not lonely, when you move across the country you are forced to do one of two things, either be social and try to make friends, or stay locked up alone. When I moved from Quebec to Cochrane I was very lonely, especially since it way in the very beginning of highschool. Everyone knew each other, but I did not know anyone. Of course like every other new freshmen teenager in highschool, I did not bother to try and become the most popular kid around, I did not even try to make a single friend for a while, but, it started to add up on me, the loneliness I was surrounded by was not pleasant, and that is when I knew I needed to make friends.…

    • 924 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Many people assume that to fit in you have to be like everyone else. Most people think that you have to dress like each other and talk like each other to be accepted in today's society. People are losing their humanity by conforming an enormous amount , they are trying to become someone they are not. What happens to all the brilliant people that do not want to engage in society because they fear the will get out down or shut out with their different ideas? We as humans need to be aware of how much conformity can change us.…

    • 390 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    “Why do so many millions of “normal” people suffer from alcoholism, eating disorders, panic attacks, depression, and other debilitating conditions? Could it be that the desire to “fit in” has lead to these self-inflicted diseases?” (Feys 5). This text means that “normal” people try to fit in by doing things that they know they can’t do but they just wanna be in the part of society where they stand out the most. This proves that society does put a lot of pressure on people.…

    • 579 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    We live in a society where it is difficult to go against the norm. Each of us are pressured to act a certain way, or look a certain way in order to be accepted. Such as teenagers may face peer pressure to do certain activities that may not be right to them, but do it anyways, because they want to fit in. But this burden of conformity is not only present in the real world, it can be found in literature as well. The story "St. Lucy’s Home For Girls Raised by Wolves" by Karen Russell depicts that in order to conform to society, individuals abandon their selflessness and compassion and become selfish and apathetic.…

    • 848 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Society today shapes how most people act. Whether a model influences a young girl to want to look exactly like her, or if a kid at school spreads rumors about someone else and everyone goes along with it. Many people today “stick to the status quo” and submit entirely to conformity. But does anyone stop and realize that everyone is different? Society greatly influences people today with the development of social media and the creation of new TV shows and books.…

    • 743 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    In discussions of “Conformity vs Individuality,”one controversial issue has been that being different from others now a days is considered weird. On one hand, the author of “Conformity vs Individuality,” argues that we should find a delicate balance between individuality…

    • 270 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I was frustrated. Frequently moving and changing the community I was in is what changed me into who I am today. Moving to a new state with a different culture, I learned how to adapt to new situations. Adapting to a new community meant making new friends. I naturally got along with people, so friends weren't too much of an issue.…

    • 588 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Coming into high school, I was so nervous that I would not fit in or make any new friends. I was what you would call “the floating butterfly” that identified with different friend groups each day. I believed that my transition from middle school to high school would not be hard, like getting used to how things would be run, but I expected that making friends was going to be difficult--since I was shy around new people. The first thing I did, was that I changed my appearance. I made sure that I would not forget to wash my face, comb my hair, and brush my teeth, as I did once a while in middle school.…

    • 1003 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    Many young girls and women are affected by eating disorders worldwide. They either starve themselves to look like the models and celebrities they see on television or binge eat right before they make themselves throw up to rid all the food. Many people have different opinions and beliefs on how eating disorders develop. Some individuals believe that biological factors play a role in contributing to this horrible disease. Society influences young females to feel pressured to live up to the ideal body image that is portrayed throughout the media and their social setting.…

    • 1740 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Alex DeVinny, a Wisconsin high school running champion, died from cardiac arrest related to anorexia. At the time of her death, at the age of 20, she was 5’8” and weighed only 70 pounds. Like Alex, so many other people from around the world are struggling with their bodies. Many have blamed it on the media as others think it’s from the family and how their personal lives are. The topic of if the media and pop culture cause eating disorders has a deep history to consider, and there will always be both supporters and critics who continue to debate this topic.…

    • 966 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    We all listened to the same bands, loved the same teen heartthrob, and all had a similar personality. It took losing a core group of friends of mine transitioning into freshman year to show me that it’s okay to be your own person. I will say freshman year was a huge struggle for me to go through without being friends with the people that I had grown closest to in the 8th grade and years prior to 9th grade, but in the long run it has benefitted me more than I could have ever imagined that year. I now am not afraid to be alone sometimes and not always hang out with a group of people or one person every weekend. I’m okay with spending time by myself just relaxing in my room or grabbing some lunch at bread co by myself when I can.…

    • 1116 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Anorexia In Teenagers

    • 639 Words
    • 3 Pages

    When thinking about deadly diseases, cancer is probably the first thing that comes to mind; however, eating disorders are very serious and harmful to the mental and physical body. Many people would not consider an eating disorder an illness; however, it is very life threatening. There are several types of eating disorders. Anorexia and Bulimia are the two that are most known around the world. Anorexia is a disease that causes self-starvation.…

    • 639 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays