He pretended to have perfection. His family, however, was not inside his world. With a lot of focus on what others think of him, Bechdel’s father ignored and neglected his family, as well as his own emotions, losing control of himself, and not really knowing his true self, as if he was living in a fairy tale. Bruce's insecurity creates constant tension around the house, and his children never know whether to expect anger or kindness from him, He tries to control his family, in doing this his children got pushed away. By trying to create a perfect world, he overlooked the love that Alison Bechdel had for him and it hurt his children. “I grew to resent the way my father treated his furniture like children, and his children like furniture.” Bechdel’s father cherished the presentation that he gave, he was obsessed with it. And his children were objects in that perfect presentation. To him, they were just objects that could be manipulated, they had no deeper value . He was perfect at creating an image, but the image had no value, since it was artificially put together. He lost track of the importance of doing things for himself, his family, and for personal
He pretended to have perfection. His family, however, was not inside his world. With a lot of focus on what others think of him, Bechdel’s father ignored and neglected his family, as well as his own emotions, losing control of himself, and not really knowing his true self, as if he was living in a fairy tale. Bruce's insecurity creates constant tension around the house, and his children never know whether to expect anger or kindness from him, He tries to control his family, in doing this his children got pushed away. By trying to create a perfect world, he overlooked the love that Alison Bechdel had for him and it hurt his children. “I grew to resent the way my father treated his furniture like children, and his children like furniture.” Bechdel’s father cherished the presentation that he gave, he was obsessed with it. And his children were objects in that perfect presentation. To him, they were just objects that could be manipulated, they had no deeper value . He was perfect at creating an image, but the image had no value, since it was artificially put together. He lost track of the importance of doing things for himself, his family, and for personal