Nobody's Son By Urrea

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Multiracial couples, human beings that don’t distinguish the color of their skin or the characteristic of their face, have respect between each other belief and cultures; most importantly the love between each other regardless of their appearances. Nobody’s Son is a story that involves a multiracial family acceptance between husband and wife, causing difficult time and self-identity to their son. A white mother and Mexican father; who hate each other for being that way they are, and what they had become over the years. Their son’s who grew up with a lot of struggles and insecurities, because of his parents’ difference, opinion and beliefs due to their crash of cultures, and not being fully accepted by his relatives from both sides of his …show more content…
His mother tells his own son how much she hated him for acting like a God-damned Mexican. Luis moms did not approve his son ideas, and the way he behaves as Mexican, nevertheless he married a white girl. Urrea’s mother had a very difficult time accepting and perceiving her son as Mexican. She was reluctant to accept her son identity as being half Mexican and half white. Urrea’s mother always had to question him, “Why can you be called Louis instead of Luis?” Luis’s mom frustration and anger were hard for Luis to understand. Although her son had the appearance of being white, his behavior was more like a Mexican since he was born in grew up in Tijuana. Therefore, his mom was always afraid that one day someone (immigration or border patrol) would come for him and take him …show more content…
Beaner. Negra (black), big lips were their favorite words they like to use anytime they had the chance to make me feel ashamed of myself because of the way I looked. My own blood made me insecure about whom I was, and the way I looked; therefore, I did not expect much from the rest of the society in this county. I did not belong and deserved to live with my dad’s family house that’s how they made me felt when I first came to this country. These words were hurtful; they felt like if the lighting had stroked me every time they were said to

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