Debra Van Ausdale and Joe R. Feagin discuss how young children act differently when adults or parents are not around and how they see race when interacting with other children in preschool. The through the looking glass metaphor talks about the people we become are result of the interactions we have with other people. So the more people we are around the more we will try to be like those people. It can translating to feelings because it’s a continual process we are always redefining who we are based on the interactions. For Cooley, social communication was an essential condition for the emergence of self-consciousness. We are not born consciousness itself rather the sense of self emerged. During early childhood in a process that he termed the
