Many of these rules are unnecessarily demeaning and often contradictory. An example of this from Girl is, “don’t walk barehead in the hot sun; cook pumpkin fritters in very hot sweet oil.” (Kincaid, pg. 1725) From this the reader can assume two things. First, a female can’t do anything to harm her appearance if it will make her unattractive to a man. Second, she must do anything, no matter the physical consequence to herself, to make a man happy. The obvious message sent to the woman is that her sole purpose is to please men and that she as a person or anything else about her is worthless. Unfortunately, this implication was widespread and heard by too many
Many of these rules are unnecessarily demeaning and often contradictory. An example of this from Girl is, “don’t walk barehead in the hot sun; cook pumpkin fritters in very hot sweet oil.” (Kincaid, pg. 1725) From this the reader can assume two things. First, a female can’t do anything to harm her appearance if it will make her unattractive to a man. Second, she must do anything, no matter the physical consequence to herself, to make a man happy. The obvious message sent to the woman is that her sole purpose is to please men and that she as a person or anything else about her is worthless. Unfortunately, this implication was widespread and heard by too many