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What is a major strength for happily married couples |
Quality of their sex relationship |
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In recent years people have been more blank about their discussion of sex |
Open |
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What does sexuality mean |
Ones beliefs, values, and bahaviors that defines each of us as sexual being |
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What does gender means |
Refers to learned characteristics and behaviours associated with being male or female in a particular culture |
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What does sexual orientation mean |
Is a persons self-identification as a hero sexual, homosexual, bisexual, or transgender |
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In what culture do they consider female sexual activity to be on par with males |
Inuit |
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What do religions do to regulate sex outside of marriage |
By making it sinful |
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What do western male dominated cultures believe |
Woman have little intrest in sex |
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What do some cultures and religions believe |
Allow men to have more than one wife |
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What varies from one culture to another regarding looks |
Standards of attractiveness vary in sorcifics |
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What is widely practiced in Africa |
Female circumcision |
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Why is female circumsion not practiced |
Not done to reduce the likelihood of urinary track infections |
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How long can people carry HIV before showing symptoms |
10 years |
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What is the most common mode of transmission of HIV for woman |
Having unprotected intercourse with an infected male |
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In all ways gay lesbian and heterosexual relationships are what |
Are like each other |
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Have the number of gay and lesbian relationships risen in recent years |
Yes |
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What has research proven about lesbian and gay couples |
Have effective communication, are caring parents and have a high emotional connection with their partner |
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What percent of people older than 45 say they are satisfied with there sex life |
50% |
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What fraction of people older than 45 say they had sexual inter course once a week |
1/3 |
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What do people older than 45 consider important |
A satisfying sexual relationship as being important |
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Is the teenage pregnancy rate increasing or decreasing |
Declining |
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What percent of us adults are in favour of sex education |
80% |
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Do a lot of kids receive direct instruction from their parents in the areas of sexuality, sexual intercourse and birth control |
No |
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A survey of 815 men found what |
Marriage is the most important thing in a mans life |
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A survey of 815 men found what |
Marriage is the most important thing in a mans life |
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Marital styles |
Complementary, conflict-minimising, best-friend, emotionally expressive |
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A survey of 815 men found what |
Marriage is the most important thing in a mans life |
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Marital styles |
Complementary, conflict-minimising, best-friend, emotionally expressive |
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Complementary couple |
Validate each other and value the marital bond, sex tends to become low in priority and very routine |
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Conflict-minimising couple |
Typically have tradition roles where the male initiated the sex and jt is very rarely discussed |
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Best-friend couple |
Intimacy is valued and sex is an intergral part however it is difficult to maintain due to high expectations |
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Emotionally expressive couple |
A very Hugh volatile relationship where sex is passionate, fun, playful however if this couple doesn’t last it will be a bad divorce |
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What binds society together, provides emotional support, and preserves our physical and psychological health |
Love and friendship |
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What is the fabric of friendship |
Respect, enjoyment, spontaneity |
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What have made our friendships more superficial |
Modern forms of communication because we don’t have to maintain relationships |
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What have made our friendships more superficial |
Modern forms of communication because we don’t have to maintain relationships |
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Historically what were based on economic considerations and not love |
Marriages |
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What have made our friendships more superficial |
Modern forms of communication because we don’t have to maintain relationships |
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Historically what were based on economic considerations and not love |
Marriages |
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What does love is often blind mean |
Because brain chemistry influences our thinking because of feeling energised and excited when we meet someone |
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Love is often misdiagnosed |
Because we mistake love with what is really passion and excitement when real live is about caring about the happiness of someone else without any thought of getting something in return |
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Love is often misdiagnosed |
Because we mistake love with what is really passion and excitement when real live is about caring about the happiness of someone else without any thought of getting something in return |
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What is sternverg’s triangular theory of love |
Passion ( occurs quickly and includes sexual attraction), intimacy ( builds slowly and includes bonding), commitment ( cognitive attachment to another person that developed over time) |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Oxytocin |
Is the hormone related to attachment and connecting with another person |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Jealousy |
Is defined as an emotional response to a real or perceived threat to a valued relationship |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Oxytocin |
Is the hormone related to attachment and connecting with another person |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Jealousy |
Is defined as an emotional response to a real or perceived threat to a valued relationship |
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What can jealousy create |
A vicious cycle, is seen by therapist as a self-defeating emotion and can be triggered by both external and internal causes |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Oxytocin |
Is the hormone related to attachment and connecting with another person |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Jealousy |
Is defined as an emotional response to a real or perceived threat to a valued relationship |
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What can jealousy create |
A vicious cycle, is seen by therapist as a self-defeating emotion and can be triggered by both external and internal causes |
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Is it rare to find spouse on an online dating site |
Yes |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Oxytocin |
Is the hormone related to attachment and connecting with another person |
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Consummate love |
Passion, intimacy and commitment |
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Jealousy |
Is defined as an emotional response to a real or perceived threat to a valued relationship |
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What can jealousy create |
A vicious cycle, is seen by therapist as a self-defeating emotion and can be triggered by both external and internal causes |
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Is it rare to find spouse on an online dating site |
Yes |
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How do men generally gain a greater intimacy |
Through doing things together |
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Liking |
Intimacy only |
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Romantic love |
Intimacy with passion |
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Infatuation |
Passion only |
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Fatuous love |
Passion and commitment |
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Empty love |
Commitment only |
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Companionate love |
Intimacy and commitment |
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People who are intensely in love have dopamine and serotonin levels that are similar to people with |
OCD and mental illness |
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Romantic relationships and sexual arousal don’t always go together |
People can be sexually atomised without being in a Romantic relationship with that person |
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Oxytocin |
Is the hormone related to attachment and connecting with another person |
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When it comes to intimacy in a relationship there should be |
A balance between self-disclosures and withholding some information |
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5 types of intimacy |
Emotional, intellectual, social, recreation, sexual |
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What is the paradox of marriage and intimacy |
We would expect marriage to provide intimacy but often intimacy declines after marriage |
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What is the paradox of marriage and intimacy |
We would expect marriage to provide intimacy but often intimacy declines after marriage |
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What do happy couples have |
Good communication skills, experience closeness, are flexible and adapt to changes, tend to have similar personality characteristics |
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Zero-sum intimacy game |
A game couples play where one person is the winner and one person is the loser |
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Zero-sum intimacy game |
A game couples play where one person is the winner and one person is the loser |
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I don’t care you decide intimacy game |
The initiator usually knows that the other person will make a decision counter to his or her desires |
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Zero-sum intimacy game |
A game couples play where one person is the winner and one person is the loser |
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I don’t care you decide intimacy game |
The initiator usually knows that the other person will make a decision counter to his or her desires |
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Making implicit rules explicit |
The most common implicit rule is don’t directly ask for what you want because typically when you do you will be told no so people have to learn to be direct in their response |
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Ways to limit destructive intimacy games in families |
Reveal game strategy , name the game, and make the implicit rules explicit |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Who are considered single |
Widowed, divorces, never married |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Who are considered single |
Widowed, divorces, never married |
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In japan what is happening |
More woman are entering the work force , becoming financially independent, and delaying marriages |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Who are considered single |
Widowed, divorces, never married |
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In japan what is happening |
More woman are entering the work force , becoming financially independent, and delaying marriages |
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Many woman are single and having children because |
They may not want to be married, they may not be able to find an acceptable partner, and they want to be a parent and have children |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Who are considered single |
Widowed, divorces, never married |
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In japan what is happening |
More woman are entering the work force , becoming financially independent, and delaying marriages |
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Many woman are single and having children because |
They may not want to be married, they may not be able to find an acceptable partner, and they want to be a parent and have children |
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Who experience more loneliness |
People who remain single and have fewer children |
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Secure romantic attachment |
High levels of comfort closeness and interdependence |
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To maintain secure romantic attachment couples much |
Continue self- disclosure, be magically supportive and have healthy sexual experiences |
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Does attachment in infancy impact adult relationships |
Yes but feelings of security or insecurity, trust or mistrust and overall relationships intimacy |
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Who are considered single |
Widowed, divorces, never married |
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In japan what is happening |
More woman are entering the work force , becoming financially independent, and delaying marriages |
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Many woman are single and having children because |
They may not want to be married, they may not be able to find an acceptable partner, and they want to be a parent and have children |
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Who experience more loneliness |
People who remain single and have fewer children |
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When comparing marriage in the us and India research showed |
That love is less important ok India however that maritial satisfaction levels were the same in both cultures |
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Advantages of arranged marriages |
There is a strong network of family support for the couple, there is little risk of being rejected or losing ones true live and there is a high level of commitment to the marriage |
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Advantages of arranged marriages |
There is a strong network of family support for the couple, there is little risk of being rejected or losing ones true live and there is a high level of commitment to the marriage |
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Dating any lead to what but not necessarily what |
May lead to intimacy but not necessarily commitment, focuses on romantic attraction and tends to focus on recreation of love and romance |
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Advantages of arranged marriages |
There is a strong network of family support for the couple, there is little risk of being rejected or losing ones true live and there is a high level of commitment to the marriage |
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Dating any lead to what but not necessarily what |
May lead to intimacy but not necessarily commitment, focuses on romantic attraction and tends to focus on recreation of love and romance |
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What is the current attitude of young people and dating |
Prefer freedom of choice in who they date and marry, are very casually and ambiguous towards dating, and dating can have multiple meanings from hanging out to commitment |
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Why is dating hard for young people |
People are very busy with education and career development, traditional courtship rules have pretty much been eliminated and many don’t know if hangin out is a date or simply hanging out |
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Why is the statement no one dates found on college campus |
Young people are engaging in hooking up and casual encounters |
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Hooking up |
Having sexual encounter with someone who is an acquaintance or may be a stranger |
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Hooking up |
Having sexual encounter with someone who is an acquaintance or may be a stranger |
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Why is hooking up common at all universities |
Technology has made it easy and common and it may be fostering conquest mentality among some males and some frats |
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Hooking up |
Having sexual encounter with someone who is an acquaintance or may be a stranger |
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Why is hooking up common at all universities |
Technology has made it easy and common and it may be fostering conquest mentality among some males and some frats |
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Individuals who are involve with online dating |
Expressed concerns over trust and extramarital affair, but likes that you can get to know someone well and attractiveness doesn’t matter |
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Hooking up |
Having sexual encounter with someone who is an acquaintance or may be a stranger |
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Why is hooking up common at all universities |
Technology has made it easy and common and it may be fostering conquest mentality among some males and some frats |
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Individuals who are involve with online dating |
Expressed concerns over trust and extramarital affair, but likes that you can get to know someone well and attractiveness doesn’t matter |
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What do elderly fear in dating |
Having the burden for caring for someone with deteriorating health, or being a burden themselves |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Why is it hard for woman to have a successful career and get married |
Mating gradient |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Why is it hard for woman to have a successful career and get married |
Mating gradient |
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Endogamy |
A practice or tradition of choosing a mate from within ones group |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Why is it hard for woman to have a successful career and get married |
Mating gradient |
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Endogamy |
A practice or tradition of choosing a mate from within ones group |
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Exogamy |
The practice or tradition of choosing a mate outside of ones group |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Why is it hard for woman to have a successful career and get married |
Mating gradient |
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Endogamy |
A practice or tradition of choosing a mate from within ones group |
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Exogamy |
The practice or tradition of choosing a mate outside of ones group |
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What is dating violence based off of |
Jealousy |
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Mating gradient |
The tendency for women to marry men who are better educated or more successful than them and for men to marry woman who are younger, attractive and from lower socioeconomic group |
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Why is it hard for woman to have a successful career and get married |
Mating gradient |
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Endogamy |
A practice or tradition of choosing a mate from within ones group |
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Exogamy |
The practice or tradition of choosing a mate outside of ones group |
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What is dating violence based off of |
Jealousy |
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Is violence going to escalate from dating to marriage |
Yes |
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Warning signs |
Expression of insults and critics, an attempt to control decisions and behaviours, withdrawal in interactions with family and friends |
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Warning signs |
Expression of insults and critics, an attempt to control decisions and behaviours, withdrawal in interactions with family and friends |
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Cohabitation |
Living with another person, you have a romantic relationship with without being married |
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Warning signs |
Expression of insults and critics, an attempt to control decisions and behaviours, withdrawal in interactions with family and friends |
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Cohabitation |
Living with another person, you have a romantic relationship with without being married |
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Are people who cohabitants before marriage more likely to get divorced |
Yes unless the couple cohabits after they have already planned to marry or are engaged-then the success rate is the same |
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Warning signs |
Expression of insults and critics, an attempt to control decisions and behaviours, withdrawal in interactions with family and friends |
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Cohabitation |
Living with another person, you have a romantic relationship with without being married |
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Are people who cohabitants before marriage more likely to get divorced |
Yes unless the couple cohabits after they have already planned to marry or are engaged-then the success rate is the same |
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Motivations for cohabitation |
Are the couples get to spend more time together, have more sexual intimacy without commitment and can save money |
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Warning signs |
Expression of insults and critics, an attempt to control decisions and behaviours, withdrawal in interactions with family and friends |
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Cohabitation |
Living with another person, you have a romantic relationship with without being married |
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Are people who cohabitants before marriage more likely to get divorced |
Yes unless the couple cohabits after they have already planned to marry or are engaged-then the success rate is the same |
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Motivations for cohabitation |
Are the couples get to spend more time together, have more sexual intimacy without commitment and can save money |
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Things to consider before cohabitation |
To make decisions with care, clearly define expectations and motivations, create an agreement as to handle finances and property |
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What is the first few years of marriage considered |
A period of difficult adjustments |
