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Conceptual framework

A set of interconnected ideas, concepts, and assumptions

Hypothesis

Specific predictions about the relationship between two or more variables

Eclectic approach

Professional who look at families and may be too open and accepting of contradictory ideas

Family systems theory

Everything that happens to any family member has an impact on everyone else in the family

Carl Whitaker

Stated “ there are no individuals in the world only fragments of families” this means that how people think and behave are influenced by their family background

Open family system

Refers to a family that is open to change and growth

Flexibility

The ability to balance stability and change

Flexible families

Need to have a balance between extremes of chaos and ridgidty

Family flexibility

Refers to sharing power, adjusting rules and switching roles

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Cohesion

The balance separateness and connectedness

Cohesion

The balance separateness and connectedness

Cohesive families

Need to have a balance between extremes of disengagement and emeshment

Disengaged

Friendships outside of the family could be more important than friendship among family members

Person in an enmeshed relationship

Tends to be vulnerable to Jealousy find their own personal growth stifled and expect the impossible from their partners

Person in an enmeshed relationship

Tends to be vulnerable to Jealousy find their own personal growth stifled and expect the impossible from their partners

How to improve an enmeshed relationship

But each person to develop individual interests and abilities

Healthy balance of separateness and connectedness

Works best for families in crisis

Centripetal interactions

Things that Paul family members together and increased family closeness

Centrifugal interaction

Things that push family members apart and make them feel seperate

Three key relationship concepts

Flexibility, cohesion, communication

Positive feedback

In families is intended to create change

Positive feedback

In families is intended to create change

Negative feedback

In families is designed to minimise change and keep things the same

Appreciation and affection

Are integral parts of strong families

Positive communication

In the family is about talking and listen to stay connected

Positive communication

In the family is about talking and listen to stay connected

Sarcasm and avoiding verbal conflict

I’m not examples of positive communication, sarcasm is used to masked anger

Kimber can have negative affects

When it is used to place someone in a superior position and used sarcastically

The most controversial finding a family strength is

Importance of religion or a sense of spiritual well-being

When it comes to managing stress strong families do what

Seek help if they cannot solve the problem themselves and look for opportunities of growth

What do you meal times together provide

A great way for strong family spent time together

Looking glass self

Person learns about who they are based on the feedback they receive from others around them

Social construction framework

Human beings are per family immersed in the social world ,are understanding of this world and believes about this world our social products

Social construction framework

Human beings are per family immersed in the social world ,are understanding of this world and believes about this world our social products

Feminists brain work

This is the notion that women are exploited devalued and oppressed and that society should commit to empowering women in changing their oppressed condition

Men listening styles

Irregular eye contact infrequent nodding and doing another activity while speak

Men listening styles

Irregular eye contact infrequent nodding and doing another activity while speak

Female listening style

Frequent nodding uninterrupted Eye contact and frequent use of uh huh

Men listening styles

Irregular eye contact infrequent nodding and doing another activity while speak

Female listening style

Frequent nodding uninterrupted Eye contact and frequent use of uh huh

Deborah tannen

Wrote a book called you just don’t understand women and men in conversation which includes a great deal of research about gender and communication

Why do women and men have a hard time communicating

Men are socialised to compete with others my women are socialised and network with others

Why do women and men have a hard time communicating

Men are socialised to compete with others my women are socialised and network with others

Why is communication and intimate relationship

A continuous balance of competing needs for intimacy and independence

When are society female and male gender roles influenced

They begin at a young age and usually continue into marriage

What is the best kind communication in an intimate relationship

To develop a delicate balance between connectedness and separateness

What is the most common criticism of tannen research about gender and communication

She unnecessarily polarise the difference between men and women

What is another critic that Sandra Bem argued about tannen work

Differences among individual women and individual men are greater than the differences between women as a group and men as a group

What is one hallmark for a successful or failure relationship

Possitive communication

What are two kinds of information in peoples messages

Content and relationship

What is the usual way the relationship component of communication is conveyed

Non-verbal

Non-verbal communication

Tells other something about the individual sending a message

Can non-verbal communication be interpreted differently throughout cultures

Yes

Mixed messages

Messages in which there is a discrepancy between the verbal and non-verbal components of their message

When there is a discrepancy between verbal and non-verbal communication people tend to rely on what

Non-verbal

Metacommunication

Dialogue about communication

Double bind

The situation in which the message relayed by the speaker called into question the type of relationship the receiver has with the speaker

Double bind

The situation in which the message relayed by the speaker called into question the type of relationship the receiver has with the speaker

How to get out of a double bind

Metacommunication

What is self disclosure

And Internet relations ship should be an on going thing to keep the relationship growing

Effective listening skills

Involves spending judgement about what we are hearing

Effective listening skills

Involves spending judgement about what we are hearing

Persuasive listening

When the listener is really looking for an opening to jump in and control the conversation

Effective listening skills

Involves spending judgement about what we are hearing

Persuasive listening

When the listener is really looking for an opening to jump in and control the conversation

Directive listening

And the listener attempt to control the direction of the conversation through the use of questions

Effective listening skills

Involves spending judgement about what we are hearing

Persuasive listening

When the listener is really looking for an opening to jump in and control the conversation

Directive listening

And the listener attempt to control the direction of the conversation through the use of questions

Attentive listening

When the listener lets the speaker tell the story without interruption and encourages rather than directing the speaker

Assertive communication styles

The expression of that feeling or desire as ones right as an individual

Assertive communication styles

The expression of that feeling or desire as ones right as an individual

Aggressive communication styles

Communication that aims to protect one’s own self-esteem that involves blaming or accusations

Assertive communication styles

The expression of that feeling or desire as ones right as an individual

Aggressive communication styles

Communication that aims to protect one’s own self-esteem that involves blaming or accusations

Passive communication styles

An unwillingness to see what you think feel or want

Assertive communication styles

The expression of that feeling or desire as ones right as an individual

Aggressive communication styles

Communication that aims to protect one’s own self-esteem that involves blaming or accusations

Passive communication styles

An unwillingness to see what you think feel or want

What happens when both people in the relationship have a passive communication styles

The level of intimacy become lower

Avoidance

A persons tendency to minimize issues or a reluctance to deal with issues directly

In human relationships is conflict normal

Yes

In human relationships is conflict normal

Yes

Has a conflict proceed what needs to happen so a crisis doesn’t occur

Decision making

Is there a difference in conflict between heterosexual gay and lesbian couples

No

Most couples who are afraid of negative emotions anger resentment and jealousy and hurt have a hard time doing what

Have a hard time learning how to deal with those emotions

Is there a difference in conflict between heterosexual gay and lesbian couples

No

Most couples who are afraid of negative emotions anger resentment and jealousy and hurt have a hard time doing what

Have a hard time learning how to deal with those emotions

Why do people suppress negative emotions

There are cultural taboos against the expression of anger because of human insecurity

Why are angry and love connected

Because we are often angry us with the ones we love

What did Bill borcherdt state

It is impossible to hate someone else without suffering oneself

What did Bill borcherdt state

It is impossible to hate someone else without suffering oneself

What are false believes about anger

Anger is caused by others the best way to deal with anger is to let it all out anger is a beneficial emotion you’re a wimp if you don’t get angry

What did Bill borcherdt state

It is impossible to hate someone else without suffering oneself

What are false believes about anger

Anger is caused by others the best way to deal with anger is to let it all out anger is a beneficial emotion you’re a wimp if you don’t get angry

What is the basis of the most conflict

Living together

People who have better anger management are what

Quicker to heal heal and have better health

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

Why is dealing with conflict efficiently necessary

To build a strong relationship

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

Why is dealing with conflict efficiently necessary

To build a strong relationship

Why does a person given ultimatum

They are trying to put themselves in the position of the parent while making the other feel like a child

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

Why is dealing with conflict efficiently necessary

To build a strong relationship

Why does a person given ultimatum

They are trying to put themselves in the position of the parent while making the other feel like a child

Why does resentment occurr

When sex is used to try to smooth over a disagreement between a couple

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

Why is dealing with conflict efficiently necessary

To build a strong relationship

Why does a person given ultimatum

They are trying to put themselves in the position of the parent while making the other feel like a child

Why does resentment occurr

When sex is used to try to smooth over a disagreement between a couple

Active listening

Focus is listening to understand the other persons point of view it keeps discussion calmer and aids in understanding one another

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

What does intimacy breed contentment because you hurt the ones you love mean

The more one that was a person the more possibilities there are for disagreement and dislike

What is the goal of fair fighting

To preserve and enhance relationship

Why is dealing with conflict efficiently necessary

To build a strong relationship

Why does a person given ultimatum

They are trying to put themselves in the position of the parent while making the other feel like a child

Why does resentment occurr

When sex is used to try to smooth over a disagreement between a couple

Active listening

Focus is listening to understand the other persons point of view it keeps discussion calmer and aids in understanding one another

Constructive approach

Stay focused on the current topic search for similarities share positive and negative feelings

When can anger be an ally to romantic partners

When it leads you to attend to the areas in the relationship that need work

Purser

An individual who wants a very high degree of togetherness and expression of feeling in relationship

Distancer

Individual who wants emotional space when stress is high is self-reliant rather than a help speaker and valleys privacy

Overfunctioner

And individual who knows what is best not only for themselves but everybody else as well I cannot lie other solve their own problems they tend to want more structure

Who tends to want more structured

Overfunctioner

Underfunctioner

Individualist who is highly flexible and under organize and becomes less competent under stress

Purses and distacers

Have difficulty finding a balance between separateness and togetherness

What does US Society encourage men to be

Distancers and over functioners

What does US Society encourage women to be

Purses and underfunctioners

When is calling in timeout useful

When verbal exchanges get too intense

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Competitive style

Characterized by being aggressive lack of cooperation pursuit of personal concerns

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Competitive style

Characterized by being aggressive lack of cooperation pursuit of personal concerns

Collaborative style

Characterized by being highly assertive while showing a great deal of concern for others

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Competitive style

Characterized by being aggressive lack of cooperation pursuit of personal concerns

Collaborative style

Characterized by being highly assertive while showing a great deal of concern for others

Avoidant style

Dr. eyes by non-assertive and passive behavior with drawing or changing the subject

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Competitive style

Characterized by being aggressive lack of cooperation pursuit of personal concerns

Collaborative style

Characterized by being highly assertive while showing a great deal of concern for others

Avoidant style

Dr. eyes by non-assertive and passive behavior with drawing or changing the subject

Compromise style

Characterized by a willingness to give up something to resolve an issue

Six steps to resolving a conflict

Clarify the issue,Find out what each person wants,Identify alternatives,How to negotiate, solidify agreement, Review and negotiate

Agree to disagree

When there is no compromise or agreed-upon solution

Competitive style

Characterized by being aggressive lack of cooperation pursuit of personal concerns

Collaborative style

Characterized by being highly assertive while showing a great deal of concern for others

Avoidant style

Dr. eyes by non-assertive and passive behavior with drawing or changing the subject

Compromise style

Characterized by a willingness to give up something to resolve an issue

Accommodating style

Characterized by nonassertive but cooperative behavior