Doubt About The Route

Front 1

what is the key thought in this chapter?

Back 1

respectful appeal can prevent conflict

Front 2

a respectful request you make to others if you want them to consider your thoughts, feelings, or needs when they are making a decision

Back 2

appeal

Front 3

the "head" of an appeal

Back 3

an "I message"

Front 4

the "tail" of an appeal

Back 4

a question

Front 5

what are the four parts of a STAR appeal?

Back 5

stop
think
appeal(ask)
respond

Front 6

when you STOP in a respectful appeal what are you doing?

Back 6

stopping yourself from choosing to say or do something that will cause coflict.

Front 7

when you THINK in a respectful appeal you, what?

Back 7

think about why you want to appeal and about what words to use

Front 8

when you APPEAL or ASK in a respectful appeal you, what?

Back 8

use "I message" and questions, communicating your appeal in a respectful way.

Front 9

when you RESPOND in a respectful appeal you, what?

Back 9

be prepared to respond respectfully whether the other person anwsers yes or no.

Front 10

you make an appeal in 5 different situations, what are they?

Back 10

-when you make an unwise promise
-when you have information that others don't
-when you are wrongly accused
-when there is something you would especially like
-when you think that someone is going to do something hurtful

Front 11

a ---------- appeal can
------- conflict

Back 11

-respectful
-prevent

Front 12

if you speak
------------, most people will be willing to listen to you.

Back 12

-respectfully

Front 13

don't ------ or ------ when you are wrongly accused

Back 13

-escape
-attack

Front 14

if you express --------- in a respectful way peaple are more likely to listen to you

Back 14

preferences

Front 15

everyone has ----- and
--------

Back 15

-likes
-dislikes

Front 16

communicate -----------
respectfully and resist
---------- to ---- or argure when you don't get your way

Back 16

-preferences
-temptation
-pout