Rich and Lorde describe how men’s desire toward women and women’s desire toward men are seen in the heterosexual world: men’s sexual desire is overwhelming, unstoppable, “all conquering”, and always carries a sense of adolescent immaturity (Rich 301); for women, it is characterized by the sexual and erotic responsibility as a wife, and the construction of “love” and romance that asserts that women are naturally drawn to men. Women according to Lorde are taught to separate the erotic from the most important parts of their lives other than sex. Both scholars understand the importance of inclusion and participation, as it allows women to pursue change within the world, rather than settled for a shift of
Rich and Lorde describe how men’s desire toward women and women’s desire toward men are seen in the heterosexual world: men’s sexual desire is overwhelming, unstoppable, “all conquering”, and always carries a sense of adolescent immaturity (Rich 301); for women, it is characterized by the sexual and erotic responsibility as a wife, and the construction of “love” and romance that asserts that women are naturally drawn to men. Women according to Lorde are taught to separate the erotic from the most important parts of their lives other than sex. Both scholars understand the importance of inclusion and participation, as it allows women to pursue change within the world, rather than settled for a shift of