Why Do People Follow Their Identity?

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Most people think they know enough about themselves, but if someone asks "Who areone?" to them, they cannot answer it right away since they do not know enough as much as they expected. This is especially for people who lived in more than one country as finding their identity is much harder than people who live only in one country. The reasons are varied, including they have more than one name and learned both cultures. In the story, Jasmine, the main character Jasmine is confused whether she belong to the culture of India or America due to different places, different kinds of people, and the difference in belief.
Every country, city, or place has their own culture and tradition. Everyone has their own lifestyle of their country. However, people required to change their mindset in order to live in different places where they have never been. The reason is every place has their own lifestyle and if one doesn 't follow it, they will alienate themselves and find more difficulty unless they become modernized by throwing out their old habits and cultures.In the book Jasmine, written by Bharati Mukherjee, Jasmine lived in India and The United States. Jyoti, who marries Prakash, lived in Hasnapur. They had their own culture such as they believe in God as well as the men decided everything while woman were a property of man. For
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The novel, Jasmine, is the one of an example that shows how people, who lived in multiple countries, often confuse which culture they should follow. In the story, Jasmine, the main character is trying to decide which culture she should follow, but several problems clouded her decisions asthe place where she lived, people who she meets during the journey from India to America, and the difference in belief led her down multiple paths where she must one choose

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