The conversation is the relationship. This concept pulled everything together in this article. I read this section twice as the words really impacted how I think of relationships. If the conversation stops, all the possibilities for the relationship …show more content…
Through this analysis, she encourages the reader to think about the preceding conversations that led them to where they are. Scott explains that you likely got to your current destination one failed or successful conversation at a time. If you are not where you want to be, you are the key to the resolution, or as Scott calls it, the accountable position (Scott 56) Improving your location starts when you decide to start being fierce in your conversations. It will not be easy, but it will be honest and will start you on the path to where you want to be. In order to improve your location, have to take the initial steps toward changing your direction. Comparatively, if where is are is where you wanted to be, you likely got there by having fierce conversations, whether you knew it at the time or not. This does not mean that you stop having those conversations, but that you cultivate the relationships with further fierce